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Rerun - I Don’t Belong Here: Imposter Syndrome and the Neurodivergent Brain
In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott open up about imposter syndrome — the belief that you’re never good enough, never qualified enough, and that one day everyone will “figure you out.”
With humour and honesty, they share personal stories of childhood bullying, masking, perfectionism and self-doubt, and how growing up misunderstood leaves many autistic and ADHD adults feeling like their achievements aren’t real. From turning down opportunities to assuming every success is luck, they explore why confidence is so difficult for neurodivergent minds.
They discuss how imposter syndrome shows up in work, relationships, creativity and social media — and how therapy, self-compassion and supportive people can slowly rewrite the story.
They explore:
- Why imposter syndrome is so common for autistic & ADHD adults
- Growing up hearing you’re “lazy,” “too much,” or “not trying”
- How masking and people-pleasing destroy self-worth
- The fear of failure — and the fear of success
- Social media, comparison and anxiety
- Why confidence takes time and why small wins matter
- When self-criticism becomes self-harm
- Why reaching out can save people from spiralling alone
This is a raw, validating conversation for anyone who has ever worked twice as hard and still felt like a fraud. If you struggle to believe in yourself, this episode is proof that you’re not alone — and that healing is possible.
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Hot Topic: ADHD & Blue Badges — Who Gets to Be “Disabled Enough”?
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114. Executive Dysfunction & Procrastination: Why Neurodivergent People Struggle With Deadlines
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Rerun - Mindful Mondays With Ashley Dupuy: The Anatomy of a Breakthrough – Part IV: Strategy
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Hot Topic: Magnetic Brain Pulses & Autism — Breakthrough or Ethical Concern?
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113. Neurodivergent Reddit Stories: Dyspraxia, Sleep Problems & Neurotypical Social Rules
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Hot Topic: Tom Hardy Comes Out As Neurodivergent
16:05|The Hot Topic is back! In this return episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott react to actor Tom Hardy publicly revealing that he is neurodivergent.The conversation explores why representation matters, especially when someone as widely respected and traditionally “masculine” as Tom Hardy openly discusses being on the spectrum, as well as Tom Hardy’s collaboration with Tatami Fightwear on a new neurodiversity-themed jiu-jitsu clothing range, with profits supporting autism charities. A funny, passionate, and honest return for the Hot Topic episodes — exploring celebrity representation, neurodivergent identity, and why visibility still matters.Our Sponsors:🧘♀️ Ashley Dupuy – Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy→ https://bit.ly/ashleynde🤝 Sophie James - Neurodivergent Mentoring→ sophiejamesndmentoring.com🔗 Stay ConnectedInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperience🎧 The Neurodivergent Experience is available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify🔔 Turn on notifications for new weekly episodes🌈 Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive at AutisticCulturePlus.com🌐 Visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com