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It is clear that if I mention SA or the R-word, there would be complaints. So much so, that victims of childhood trauma will find it more difficult to find the support they deserve to make sense of what has happened to them. Such support could enable these children at some point in their lives to live as close to the life they could have led if they were not R'd.Another result of 'we don't talk about SA or R' means that some perpetrators exist in a world of self-hatred, unable to get the help they need. While other perpetrators feel they are entitled to live out their ideology, altering the lives of those children who seek, as we all do, to live a childhood free of harm.We don't talk about R or SA because society (you and I) are too uncomfortable talking openly and honestly about the unspeakable. The vulnerable suffer because of the unspeakable.Luckily for us, Jeremy Indika is an individual who speaks about the unspeakable, and some organisations even trust him enough to help him share his experience. It is an honour for me, in my small way, to champion this good human who seeks to make this world a little bit safer for you and I.By now, you know what we are 'not talking about'. To learn more, listen to this episode, share, comment and get active in any way you can.To be active, visithttps://jeremyindika.com/ You will have access to links to his podcast YouTube . and much more.Other places of support in the UK.https://www.thesurvivorstrust.org/https://www.thehavens.org.uk/Please let me know where in the world others have gained support, and after some due diligence I will add it to this list.The EighteenSeven Podcast is produced independently.The presenter, EighteenSeven, has over 17 years of working with male perpetrators and victims of domestic abuse. He is a qualified IDVA (independent Domestic Violence Advisor) and, a level 4 Counsellor in Training offering therapeutic support to males (and those who identify as male).To support the podcast, visit my socials to comment and share here.Use this link to email me.Or call me by clicking here.

As a parent, you never want to have to bury your child. Imagine you have to, knowing that your child has been snatched from you and your family by someone who decided, after months or even years of coercion, control, and violence, to then murder them. What would you do?For this episode, I briefly examine the world of domestic homicide and its possible impact on families.I spoke with Nick Gazzard, who, with the support of his family, did something we should all the grateful for. Make no mistake; their work has saved lives. Has protected victims from false allegations and produced evidence that has helped convict perpetrators of abuse.Here you can learn more about the outstanding work the trust is doing nationwide.Here you can download the Holiguard App. Probably the best personal protection app in the UK.The EighteenSeven Podcast is produced independently. The presenter has over 15 years of working in domestic violence and is currently an IDVA working exclusively with male victims of domestic abuse. He is also training to become a qualified counsellor but wishes to work with males (and those who identify as male).To support the podcast, visit my socials to comment and share here.Use this link to email me.Or call me by clicking here.Further Information on the subjects mentioned.Mankind research. https://mankind.org.uk/statistics/Suzy Lampugh Trust https://www.suzylamplugh.org/

I'm not sure how many times I need to apologise, but I'm sorry for the late, late, late episode.I reset my kit, and everything sounded horrible. All sorted now, I hope. (Let me know if I am wrong) I have a better idea of what I am doing with the podcast and how I am formatting the episodes. As a result, there will be a return to two episodes a month. Plus, the episodes will be longer with more information.This episode is a bit about addiction but mainly about a man in recovery who wrote a fantastic book about his lived experience of alcohol addiction and his recovery journey.The book is called Me and My Addiction, Written by Stewart Lee.This is an infuriating and empowering story about the guy we all know who needs a shake or a cuddle. This book will help those who struggle with addiction and those who struggle with caring for an addict to understand each other.A great read.To buy the book, HERE. If you have read it, leave a review.For more about Stewart Lee, the author. The EighteenSeven Saiid PodcastLinks to all of the podcast socials and contact details are here.To support the podcast for free, subscribe and share with other lovely humans.If you have a story or a comment you wish to share, message or send a voice note via WhatsApp.Anything you share with me is confidential and will not be shared with any third party unless you or others are at serious risk of harm.Remember. You are important.18:7

In this episode, I speak with Mark Brooks about his work with great people and fantastic organisations striving for equality for all by supporting male victims of domestic abuse and more.For more information, please follow these links:The Mankind Initiative https://www.mankind.org.uk Confidential helpline for male victims of domestic abuse and violence.Lines open 10 am to 4 pm 01823334244Call 999 if you are in immediate danger.The Men and Boys Coalition. https://www.menandboyscoalition.org.ukTwitter @MBCoalitionTo donate to the coalitionThe Amendments to the Controlling and Coervice OffenceRemember, if you have a story to tell or need a question answered, contact me directly on,WhatsApp nowEmail in EighteenSevensaid at gmail.comFor all the Socials, visit https://linktr.ee/eighteensevensaidTo support this podcast, please share and subscribe that way, you'll never miss an episode.

Please join me and spend the next 30 minutes with Rick Clemons, author, podcaster and public speaker. He talks about his journey to getting closer to his true self. He proves that we have parallel journeys, and I hope you will be enthused enough to trust yourself and choose the path that suits you.To learn more about Rick Clemons, visit https://rickclemons.com/ You will find all the information he mentions in this thought provoking interview.If you have a similar lived experience or want to contact me, click HERE. For access to the Eighteenseven Said Podcast socials, email, and other episodes, click CONTACT.

This very quick episode is shy of 5 minutes long and was recorded on a different kit, so apologies for the audio.The podcast must be getting some interest as I keep getting emails being negative and a bit troll-like from angry men and some angry women. So this is to put the record straight. If you have any questions feel free to give me a call.Take Care EighteenSeven.Transcript the 187 said podcast mission statementthe 187 podcast is a podcast for menthose who identify as men and those whocare for them but what does that evenmeanthe podcast focuses on issues that menfaceI want to share ideas and informationthat Aid the support of men to findsolutions that are right for themnow I have a personal understanding ofthe expectations of being a malehowever, that's my lived experience andit's essential for everyone to hearyourson this podcast, I'm more likely to talkabout body dysmorphia than I am abouthow to get a six-pack or consent for menand boys rather than how to close thedeal on a luxury womannow my views on my own and I'm open tobeing challenged butI make no apologies for being maleall my perceived maleness, I will notmake excuses for some men's entitledBehaviouranymorethat I would for some women entitled behaviourI believe we're all individuals who are part ofa global Collective, and that I you we ushave the responsibility not to beunhelpful to each other, we should expectto be challenged if we are beingunhelpful, and I believe we shouldChallenge and helpfulnesswith love and respect, looking for thecollective win rather than theindividual ego boostall the unhealthfulness and unhelpfulthat I mentioned can be replaced withexpletives, it's completely up to younow how are we going to do thisactivism is the key somy contribution is to hold true to myvalues and create a platform fordialogue change and development hencethe 187 said podcastsupport this podcast, do one of thefollowingtell someone about the podcast bysharing a link on your socialssubscribe be a guest on the podcastsuggest a topic and share yourexperiences or ask a questionyou can donate by patreon two pounds amonthwould make all the differenceor you can buy some merchandise which iscoming soon or book a course which againis coming soonwho is 187. now I use this nonda plumeprotect the identity of theorganizations and individuals that Iwork withsome of my self-disclosures may impacton my friends and family, so I need toprotect their privacyfinallyI think it's important to listen to themessage in each episode and question thecontent rather than rely on class racesexual orientation disability or myperceived intellect to validate themessagebecause these are precisely themechanisms that divide ussome of the things I get asked arethe following are your men's rightactivistsnoare you a male feminist nowhat are you, thenI'm a man who just wants peoplenot to be unhelpfulif you have any other questionsplease email

You are not the father. Paternity Fraud.Paternity Fraud is often seen as funny or not much of a big deal.However, in this episode, we discuss the impacts, a possible solution and who you can turn to when it is revealed that you are not the father. (or the son or daughter)To find out more, visit Paternity Fraud UKorEmail paternityfrauduk@gmail.comAll discussions are confidential, and currently, all support is free of charge.The EighteenSeven Said PodcastIf you have found this helpful podcast, then share and subscribe.If you have a problem and you need advice, then contact EighteenSeven (+447367034004)or email eighteensevensaid at gmail.comOr all the socials etc. can be found here. Remember, you are important.

Breaking free - Like a Viking.We can focus on the issues impacting men but then spend too much time discussing who is to blame when we should look for solutions. In this episode, we talk to Johan Rylander, The Viking Mindset Coach. He talks about his loss of self-confidence and how he regained his strength by re-igniting his inner Viking.If the next 30 minutes resonate with you, use the links below to learn more. www.vikingmindsetcoach.comthevikinghjourney@gmail.com info@vikingmindsetcoach.comYou can find Johan on Linkedin at https://www.linkedin.com/in/johan-rylander-05768b19bThe Eigtheenseven Said Podcast will always be free of charge, but I would be grateful if you could.Tell someone about the podcast by sharing a link on your socials.Click subscribe and auto-download new episodes.Be a guest on the podcast. Suggest a topic or share your experience. Ask a question.All the links to the EighteenSeven Said Podcast are HERE