Share

cover art for Ep 92. Healing Trauma with Nicky Clinch

The Calmer You Podcast

Ep 92. Healing Trauma with Nicky Clinch


Nicky Clinch is a Maturation Coach &  Facilitator. Maturation is a process of growing out of who you thought you were into who you were born to be.



Her mission in life is for you to break free of the confines of your past traumas, self-defeating patterns and suffering so that you can realise and come home to who you truly are.



We chat about:



* Nicky shares her tag on anxiety (it’s not your usual perspective and I love it)* How we can heal trauma* Nicky shares her powerful story of transformation through plant medicines* Why she scrapped 50,000 words of her book to start from scratch







Sponsor



Sweaty Betty – Pop into one of their stores with your old leggings to grab that voucher towards a new pair. Head to https://www.sweatybetty.com/sustainability to find out more. Get 20% off online purchases with the code calmeryou.



Transcript



Introduction



Chloe: Hello, and welcome to the Calmer You podcast. This is your host Chloe Brotheridge, I’m a coach, a hypnotherapist, and I'm the author of “the anxiety solution and brave new girl,” and this podcast is all about helping you to become your calmest, happiest and most confident self. In this episode, I'm talking to the wonderful Nicky Clinch, and Nicky is such a special person, she came over to my house to recall this episode, we actually live quite close to one another in London, in Hackney, East London. And we sat together on the sofa, and I honestly felt like this conversation was so healing for me, and it really came at the right time for me personally and I really hope it helps here as well.



Nicky is a transformational leader and facilitator, she has studied
integrative counseling and macrobiotics, she is also a spiritual mentor and
it's her mission in life to help all of us to break free from the confines of
our past traumas, ourselves defeating patterns, and our suffering. So that we
can realize and come home to who we are. So Nicky and I get into lots different
topics, we start off by talking about trauma and how it can be the root of so
many of our issues and how we can start to overcome the traumas that held us
back. Nicky gives us her take on anxiety and where that comes from and what we
can do to start to manage our own anxiety.







And Nicky advice definitely isn't the standard 3 tips to curing anxiety something that you might read day-to-day, it really does go very very deep and it's very very powerful. She shares some really moving personal stories about how she's healed her own trauma, how own experience of plant medicines, her own transformation and how she helps other people to transform. She also shares the incredible story about how she was 50000 words into writing her book, she had publishing deal with Hey house and how she actually scrapped the whole 50000 words and went on a different path and this is incredible for me, as someone who has written a book to let go of 50000 words, that's just terrifying to me.



So I love this story with Nicky, it was incredibly inspiring. So I would
love to send some free resources to help you grow your confidence, boost your
self-esteem and calm your anxiety, if you want these freebies you can head over
to my website; calmeryou.com/free, put your email address in there and I'll
send you those freebies right away. So let's get into the interview with Nicky
clinch.



Nicky Clinch: So we’re rolling.


More episodes

View all episodes

  • Ep 242. Make this list today to feel more accomplished

    10:40|
    My to-do list can feel like a heavy weight hanging over me that I need to offload before I deserve any breathing room. How many of us wake up with the sense that we're already 'behind' and that we need to furiously tick off a few tasks from our list before we can relax.If you struggle with feeling as though nothing you do is ever enough, this episode is for you. THIS is the list you need to make to feel more accomplished - because your to do list is never ending and will never be finished. Check out The Hypnotherapy Pack www.calmer-you.com/hypnotherapy-packTry a FREE Hypnotherapy session for anxiety www.calmer-you.com/reset
  • Ep 241. Use this to overcome fear or nervousness

    13:12|
    This simple technique is loved by athletes and public speakers to help them to overcome fear and nervousness and step into confidence. Get The Hypnotherapy Collection and save 20% with the code PODCAST.Get my free public speaking confidence training at www.calmer-you.com/ps
  • Ep 240. Can your mind change your body?

    07:16|
    I recently learned that a public figure (and former hypnotherapist) used to see clients to help them to grow bigger breasts (lol) - and it got me thinking - can the power of the mind change the body? In this episode I'm sharing about the power of your mind and your beliefs to make real changes in your mind and body.Get the Hypnotherapy Collection and save 20% with the code PODCAST.
  • Ep 239. Comparing yourself to others? Remember this.

    04:48|
    Sharing a quick and calming idea today to remember when you're comparing yourself to others. Checkout the Hypnotherapy Collection and save 20% with the code PODCAST.
  • Ep 238. Find it hard to switch off? Know this.

    04:44|
    A quick idea to help you to switch off from work in the evenings or on holiday.Checkout the Hypnotherapy Collection and save 20% with the code PODCAST.
  • Ep 237. Being Productive not Stressed

    17:49|
    Talking about the ways that I personally stay productive and not stressed.I share:-The ideal number of hours we should be working a day to be most creative and focused.-The easy way I remove a top time suck from my life.-The simple productivity change that caused some companies to increase their revenue by 35%.- The shocking statistic about how many hours a day most people are productive for.Get my FREE hypnotherapy session that helps you to switch off your worries and think more positively www.calmer-you.com/resetGet The Ultimate Hypnotherapy Collection www.calmer-you.com/collection
  • Ep 236. Regulating the Nervous System with Michelle Grosser

    45:40|
    Get a FREE Hypnotherapy session for Calm and Confidence www.calmer-you.com/resetShe’s an attorney turned nervous system expert and the host of The Calm Mom Podcast (recently ranked top 20 parenting podcast on Apple’s charts) where she teaches women how to regulate their nervous system to manage anxiety, overwhelm, and burnout.We discuss:How to regulate the nervous system and what that even means!Why traditional self-care isn't enough when we're burning outHow to rewire the nervous systemLearn more about Michelle at https://michellegrosser.com/
  • Ep 235. Relationships, Boundaries and Keeping House with KC Davis

    01:01:27|
    Get The Anxiety Reset, a FREE Hypnotherapy session at www.calmer-you.com/resetGet The Hypnotherapy Collection and save 20% with the code PODCAST.KC Davis is a licensed therapist and author. Her new book is called 'Who Deserves Your Love', a groundbreaking exploration of relationships and boundary-setting, whether you are dealing with family, friends, or lovers. We discuss:-How to tell the difference between occasional screw ups and abuse?-The Vulnerability Cycle (which I so related to)-How to set boundaries in a relationship-How to keep the house tidy when you're overwhelmed or depressedFind her at https://www.strugglecare.com
  • Ep 234 Intuition vs Anxiety - how to know the difference

    29:26|
    Get your FREE Instant Calm Hypnotherapy session at www.calmer-you.com/audioContact me about 121 hypnotherapy www.instagram.com/chloebrotheridgeHow do you tell the difference between intuition and anxiety?We’ll talk about:➝ Why anxiety is loud and shouty, and intuition is calm and steady➝ How perfectionism can drown out your inner voice➝ The subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that your brain is spiralling vs. when your inner wisdom is trying to guide you➝ And how to start trusting yourself again—one tiny decision at a timeLet me know what you think of this episode!