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S2E65 The Success Cocktail

Season 2, Ep. 65

If success was a cocktail, it would be made with very specific ingredients. In this episode, Brian shares his secret recipe for successful thinking and reveals why some people achieve success while others don’t.  



·     Why some people fail.   

·     Why some people succeed.

·     Why it’s never too late to prevail.



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“Hope exists for everybody. It doesn't matter what age you are or where you are in your life, you can always turn things around, you can always succeed and you can always prevail at any age.” – Brian Buffini


“Failure is an event, it's not a person. However, many people are cloaked in failure, and they have patterns of failure and they're drinking the cocktail of failure every day.” – Brian Buffini


“Humble pie is the pastry that’s never tasty.” – Brian Buffini


“When you get humbled, you have a decision to make: you either get bitter or better.” – Brian Buffini


“When life's upside down, that's not the time to panic, that's the time to grow.” – Brian Buffini

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