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S2E184 Your Personal Growth Journey with Dave McGhee

Season 2, Ep. 184
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No matter what difficulties or challenges you encounter in this life, you’ll come out on top when you focus on personal growth. In this episode, Brian Buffini and Dave McGhee discuss why personal growth is the key to success and share why it’s vital to shift your perspective, move beyond either/or thinking and set clear goals and milestones if you want to win.

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

·     Why limiting beliefs can hinder growth. 

·     How a good coach can help you create a roadmap for success.

·     Why strategic tactics are essential.

 

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NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:

 

“The number one thing that keeps people from really growing to their capability is a lack of clarity on what they really want, and why they want it.” – Dave McGhee

 

“Tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat.” – Sun Tzu  

 

“Start with the end in mind.” – Dave McGhee

 

“Write down what you really want to accomplish, and why it's important to you.” – Dave McGhee


“The tactics are critical. Without the tactics, we're not going to achieve our goal. But the key is tying those tactics strategically to long-term vision.” – Dave McGhee


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