Thats my Time with Tolu Afilaka

In this heartfelt Christmas special episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Tunmise and Adepoju for an honest, soul-searching conversation about faith, devotion, and the realities of walking with God in 2025.This episode is not about perfection. It is about process.Tunmise reflects on a faith journey rooted in her youth and shaped by intentional growth, personal encounters with God, and a genuine hunger for intimacy with Him. She shares how her devotion evolved beyond routine into a lived, experiential relationship built on understanding and surrender.Adepoju opens up about the highs and lows of his Christian walk, revealing how ministry, service, and life pressures tested and refined his faith. He speaks candidly about balancing responsibility with relationship, navigating seasons of distance, and finding strength in God through uncertainty.Together, they explore what it truly means to reconnect with God after spiritual burnout, how to heal from church hurt, and why structured scripture study, prayer, and community are essential for spiritual renewal. The conversation also challenges listeners to reflect deeply on one defining questionWho is Jesus to you really?This episode doubles as a Christmas reflection and a 2025 spiritual wrap up, offering listeners a moment to pause, reset, and realign their hearts for the year ahead.If you are questioning, rebuilding, or seeking a deeper walk with God, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.TIMESTAMPS00:00 – 01:30 Introduction02:27 – 16:15 Tunmise’s Christian walk in 202516:15 – 22:35 Adepoju’s Christian walk in 202522:35 – 25:31 Tolu Afilaka’s Christian walk in 202525:31 – 27:07 Having people praying for you27:07 – 34:57 Stirring up devotion with God34:57 – 50:45 Prayer life and relationship with God50:45 – 1:11:06 Who is Jesus to you#ThatsMyTimePodcast#ToluAfilaka#ChristianPodcast#FaithJourney#WalkingWithGod#christianlife Christian podcast, That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka, Christmas special podcast, faith in 2025, Christian walk 2025, walking with God, knowing Jesus, relationship with God, prayer life, devotion to God, spiritual growth, faith journey, Christian youth podcast, Nigerian Christian podcast, church hurt healing, spiritual burnout recovery, reconnecting with God, Christian conversations, prayer and scripture study, devotional podcast, Christian reflection, Christmas faith reflection, 2025 spiritual wrap up, personal faith stories, Christian lifestyle podcast, ministry and faith balance, rebuilding faith, intimacy with God, Jesus Christ discussion, prayer community, Christian mental and spiritual health, end of year faith reflection, Christian growth podcast, faith based conversations

In this deeply introspective and emotionally charged episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Olushola Olaleye for a profound conversation about masculinity, vulnerability, spiritual responsibility, success, pain, leadership, and the silent emotional battles men fight daily.From the first moment, it becomes clear that this episode is not entertainment it's therapy, mentorship, and revelation wrapped into one. Whether you’re a man trying to understand yourself or a woman trying to understand men, this conversation will shift your mindset forever.Olushola Olaleye takes us through the story of his calling, the spiritual nudges that shaped him, and the mentorship of Pastor Emmanuel Iren that grounded and refined his purpose. He speaks openly about his mother’s sacrifice after losing his father, the humility she instilled, and how her resilience became the foundation of his emotional and spiritual maturity.This episode explores childhood wounds, the pressure of parental expectations, how success is actually maintained, and why self-leadership not talent—is the true mark of greatness. We dive into masculinity, male emotional repression, why men struggle to open up, and the staggering reality of suicide among men worldwide.The conversation goes deeper into relationships, marriage preparation, adulthood, societal pressure, and the burden many African men carry. Pastor Olaleye confronts cultural misconceptions, unlearning toxic masculinity, empathy for men, and how emotional maturity is essential for building healthy homes.We also touch on AI’s disruption of jobs, what young Nigerians need to survive the future, and the kind of leadership he would implement if he were president.This episode is raw, insightful, confronting, and healing. Share it with every man and every woman who loves a man.TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – 15:00 The Calling, The Presence & Early Spiritual Nudges• Introduction to Pastor Olushola Olaleye• Tolu reflects on his grace, presence, and spiritual weight• How Olaleye knew he was called from childhood15:00 – 30:00 | Childhood Pain, His Mother’s Strength & Foundations of Masculinity• Losing his father and watching his mother carry the family• Lessons of humility, tenderness, compassion• How pain shaped his emotional intelligence• Accepting spiritual responsibility early• How upbringing prepared him for deeper leadership• The moment he realized he was born different30:00 – 45:00 | Convincing Parents, Building Track Record & Understanding Real Success• How to make your parents trust your choices• Why many young adults fail at communicating with parents• Track record: the language parents understand45:00 – 60:00 | Male Vulnerability, Emotional Repression & Suicide Awareness• Where men’s emotional pain comes from• Why the pain of men is invisible in society• Emotional maturity: can women handle the truth?• Why we MUST be kinder to men• Men vs women: emotional processing differences• SLK being underrated & men who feel unseen• Why men should cry more—even if not as much as women1:00:00 – 1:39:00 | Brotherhood, Marriage Pressure, AI Disruption & Hope for Nigeria• Why every man needs a brotherhood circle• What it means to “chest" things as a man• Teasing SLK about never dating• Financial pressure of marriage preparation for men• How to prepare for marriage the smart way• Major on the minor: principles for adulthood• AI disruption and job loss—how to survive it• Why AI is about knowledge application• Is there hope for Nigeria?• What Pastor Olaleye would do if he were president• Final thoughts & blessingsQUESTION FOR YOU:What’s the most misunderstood thing about men today?Comment below we read everything.If you found this powerful, LIKE, SHARE & SUBSCRIBE.Turn on notifications for weekly conversations that shift your mindset.mens mental health, emotional maturity, masculinity podcast, self leadership, AI and future of work, purpose and calling#PastorOlaleye#MensMentalHealth#Masculinity2025#NigerianPodcast

In this gripping continuation of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola sit down once again with the dynamic Ebuka Mic, comedian and youth pastor at Christ Embassy, for a conversation that delves deep into the heart of the Christian faith, spirituality, and the power of the Holy Spirit.In this second part of their conversation, Ebuka takes us on a journey through powerful themes of judgment, spiritual maturity, and the truth about prosperity. He challenges listeners to reflect on the deep complexities of Christian life, touching on topics that often get overlooked or misrepresented. Ebuka shares his thoughts on why Christians should never judge men of God, emphasizing the fact that God’s anointed cannot be touched by mere humans. He uses powerful examples, including the words of Papa Adeboye, to remind us that there is a higher divine system of justice at play. This part of the conversation will leave you reflecting on the maturity needed to understand God’s judgment and what it means to truly walk in faith.Ebuka also tackles the issue of the victim mindset, a mentality that holds many Christians back from experiencing true spiritual freedom. He encourages believers to reject the mindset of being a victim and reminds us all that everything is working for our good – even the challenges and struggles. As he discusses the importance of choosing God over personal losses, Ebuka inspires us to see our lives through the lens of divine purpose, showing us how even the most difficult circumstances can be opportunities for growth and transformation.As the conversation moves forward, Ebuka dives into the topic of prosperity and the dangers of materialism. He shares his thoughts on what it means to walk in dominion and how prosperity isn’t just about accumulating wealth, but about reflecting God’s glory in every area of life. He talks about his own experiences, including how his father was arrested and later released by Obasanjo with just a letter – a powerful example of divine intervention. Ebuka urges listeners to rethink the prosperity gospel and to focus instead on the glory that manifests on the inside – a glory that brings true transformation, not just temporary material success.The episode also takes a personal turn as Ebuka opens up about the challenges and experiences of the comedy industry. He talks about why it’s essential for comedians to create structure and make bold statements with their work, giving advice to those who are called to ministry in the entertainment world. He also shares his proudest moments in comedy and how he uses his platform to impact lives in a meaningful way.Finally, the discussion turns to the much-debated topic of the rapture and the end times. Ebuka shares his thoughts on whether Jesus’ return is imminent and reflects on significant global events, like Queen Elizabeth’s death, and their potential connection to biblical prophecies. This conversation will make you think deeply about the trajectory of the world and your role in preparing for the coming of the Lord.This episode isn’t just for pastors or churchgoers—it’s for anyone who wants to understand the deeper meanings of faith, calling, and how to live with purpose. Whether you’re questioning your place in the world or seeking to live a more impactful life, Ebuka Mic’s powerful insights and bold statements will inspire you to examine your relationship with God and your mission on earth.Timestamps: • 00:00 – 15:00: Why We Should Never Judge Men of God & Understanding Christian Maturity • 16:00 – 30:00: Overcoming the Victim Mindset & Understanding True Prosperity • 30:00 – 45:00: Prosperity vs Materialism, Glory, and Divine Intervention

In this powerful and spirit-filled episode of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola welcome back Ebuka Mic — comedian, youth pastor at Christ Embassy, and passionate soul winner — for a raw, convicting, and transformative conversation about evangelism, the Holy Spirit, and the true heart of ministry.Ebuka opens up about his divine burden for souls and the encounters that have shaped his ministry — from reaching drug addicts to leading cultists to Christ. With unfiltered honesty, he shares how the cry of people should move every believer, and why if you’re not preaching, you may not truly believe.This episode dives deep into what it means to be filled with the Holy Ghost, to walk in boldness, and to live a life fully surrendered to God’s call. Ebuka confronts the misconceptions around ministry, challenges the culture of commercialization in the church, and reminds believers that ministry isn’t about fame — it’s about sacrifice and transformation.Together, Tolu, Daeola, and Ebuka unpack vital questions:Should Christians charge gate fees for ministry events?Why do we have “gospel musicians” but not “gospel doctors”?What’s the difference between success with men and success with God?How can worship stay rooted in reverence, not just vibes?From deliverance stories to revelations about purpose, calling, and obedience, this conversation will stir your faith and reignite your passion for the gospel. Whether you’re a pastor, creative, or believer, you’ll be reminded that ministry begins with compassion — and ends with transformation.Guest: Ebuka Mic — Comedian, Youth Pastor (Christ Embassy) 📸 Instagram: @ebuka_micHosts: Tolu Afilaka — @toluafilaka Daeola — @daeola🎧 Tune in, be stirred, and share with someone who needs this truth.#EbukaMicOn #PastorChrisOyakhilome #ChristEmbassy #SoulWinning #Evangelism #ChristianFaith #HolySpirit #PurposeAndCalling #MinistryNotMerchandise #ChristianPodcast

In this powerful episode of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola sit down with Pastor Lokachi of Celebration Church International (CCI) for a raw and inspiring conversation on purpose, purity, singlehood, relationships, honor, and spiritual growth.From his remarkable story of being a stillborn baby resuscitated through prayer, to discovering his calling to ministry as early as Primary 1, Pastor Lokachi shares how passion can point to purpose and how God redirected his journey even after facing rejection at Covenant University.We dive into real issues many Christians wrestle with today:Purpose & Passion: How to discover what God has called you to do.Spiritual Fathers vs Idolatry: The “Daddy” culture at Celebration Church and how Pastor Emmanuel Iren shaped his walk.Church Culture & Gen Z Faith: From Christ Embassy to Celebration Church, and dealing with slangs like “Christocentric Baddie.”Singleness, Love & Sexual Purity: Why love isn’t only logical, enjoying singlehood, and whether Christians should be on dating apps.Money & Ministry: Should music ministers be paid? How to balance God and mammon.Accountability & Friendship: The role of friends in calling out bad behavior and helping pastors through depression.This episode isn’t just about theology — it’s about living out faith in real life. Whether it’s setting high Christian standards, navigating ups and downs in devotion, or enjoying relationships the right way, Pastor Lokachi’s story will inspire you to walk in purpose with purity and confidence.🎧 Don’t just listen — join the conversation in the comments. Share your thoughts on dating apps for Christians, spiritual fatherhood, or singleness in today’s culture.00:00 Intro – Is Pastor Lokachi single?06:58 Stillborn story & early calling to ministry15:12 Idolizing men of God vs real honor18:25 Encounter with Pastor Iren & transition to CCI25:01 Gen-Z church slangs: “Christocentric baddie”30:15 High Christian standards & spiritual growth37:55 Depression, accountability & friendship45:28 Love, relationships & enjoying singlehood1:05:12 Should Christians be on dating apps?1:09:40 Should music ministers be paid? God vs mammon1:14:10 Sexual sin & the value of friendshipGuestPastor Lokachi — Celebration Church InternationalInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelokachi/HostsTolu Afilaka — Host of That’s My Time PodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/Daeola — Co-hostInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/daeola/ If you loved this conversation, hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this episode with a friend who needs clarity on purpose, purity, and relationships.Drop your thoughts in the comments: Should Christians use dating apps in 2025?#PastorLokachi #PastorIren #CelebrationChurch #ChristianPodcast #ThatsMyTimePodcast #Purpose #SexualPurity #Singlehood #ChristianRelationships #ChristianFaith #ChristianDating #RealHonor #FaithAndCulture

Meshkiey lost his dad and turned that pain into purpose. In this unfiltered conversation, he breaks down how he found his voice, built momentum while keeping a 9–5, and carved a lane in Nigeria’s ₦50 billion skit industry. We cover idea generation, characters, the money math behind skits, handling hate, faith, family, and the move toward film. If you’re a creator trying to grow without the hype, this is the blueprint.What you’ll learn:• Skits vs stand-up: why he chose short-form and how he writes fast• The creative system: characters, sourcing ideas, weekly workflow• Money talk: revenue streams, rates, and what actually pays• Mental game: handling comments, staying underrated, consistency• Life behind the lens: losing his dad, healing, work–faith balance• Next moves: films, judging videos, and long-form strategyChapters:00:00 Why skits, not stand-up; the early style10:00 Films next, is there money in skits, keeping a 9–5, social-media drama20:00 Faith, loss, working in a restaurant, living with ulcer, isolation and healing30:00 Name origin, getting into skits, how he judges videos, closing lessonsIf this helped, subscribe for creator-grade interviews every week. Comment “Meshkiey” if you want the notes and resource list, and I’ll send them.Links:• Watch more episodes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDQV1oFep7I&list=PLUQKZaVlpq4l2Thtevz-CTWWcaPa4FDfb&pp=gAQB• Follow Meshkiey: https://www.instagram.com/meshkiey/• Follow Tolu Afilaka: https://www.instagram.com/p/DOx9ioECMqS/

🎙️ EPISODE 4 – ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing UpIn this deeply personal and hilarious episode of That’s My Time, I’m joined by three amazing guests who represent different parts of my journey:Modupe Cole – my cousin, whom I haven’t seen in 18 years!Increase – my university classmate from our Civil Engineering days.Favour Nelson – a top productivity expert with gems for navigating life and work.Together, we dive into what no one really prepares you for — ADULTING. From choosing where to live (Kwara vs Lagos), to food struggles, navigating NYSC, dating in your 20s, and figuring out if work-life balance is even real — this episode is a raw and relatable look at growing up in Nigeria.We talked about:The shock of responsibilities and managing life aloneMaking important life decisions, including relationships and marriageMy cousin dating my close friend 😅The painful lessons I learned in a past relationshipHow many kids we each want 😂Lagos traffic and housing madnessModupe’s inspiring entrepreneurship journey with her crocheting businessIf gospel artistes should charge for ministrationOur future plans, personal growth, and moreIt’s funny, emotional, honest, and full of life lessons you didn’t know you needed. Whether you're 18, 25, or 30+, you’ll find yourself in this episode.📌 Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro 2:00 – The struggles of adulting 10:00 – Family, relationships & unexpected confessions 20:00 – NYSC, work-life chaos & productivity 35:00 – Entrepreneurship as a young Nigerian 41:00 – Gospel music, controversy & future plans 47:00 – Outro & final thoughts💬 Drop a comment – What’s been your biggest shock about adulthood? 📢 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on the notification bell for more real, raw and refreshing conversations!📌 Follow us on Instagram for BTS & more: @ThatsMyTimePodcast | @ToluAfilaka#Adulting101 #NigerianPodcast #ModupeCole #LagosLife #That’sMyTime #WorkLifeBalance #FavourNelson #GospelArtistes #LifeTalk #CrochetBusiness #NYSC #Relationships #ToluAfilaka

Welcome back to another explosive episode of That’s My Time Podcast with your host Tolu Afilaka and i have my amazing brothers — Increase, AYK, Awa Victor, Fulfillment, and Gini.In honor of Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, we went all in: from relationship standards, cheating, ego, money, and masculinity, to how men really process emotions. You don’t want to miss this honest, funny, and at times, very raw conversation.📍 Timestamps & Topics Breakdown:00:00 - Intro & Welcome02:00 - Should a Christian Man Have a Spec?We debate the "spec" culture — what kind of women each of us actually like.Gini drops his love for deep conversations.Increase opens up about how his girlfriend wasn’t originally his "spec".Fulfillment wants good English + pedigree.Awa Victor and Gini clash with hilarious disagreements.Fulfillment drops: "What happens to the dumb babes?"Gini: "I like to feel underrated and then get the babe."20:00 - Hot Seat: Cheating, Forgiveness & LoyaltyFulfillment gets grilled on the hot seat!Gini breaks down why your girlfriend shouldn't stop you from finding your wife 😮.Tolu explains why cheating is never okay.AYK declares: "I don’t even have the capacity to cheat."The panel explores the question: Should cheaters be forgiven?Tolu shares his own real-life cheating temptation story.Awa drops deep relationship wisdom.40:00 - When The Lady Initiates CheatingAwa Victor shares powerful wisdom on how men should handle cheating temptations.Tolu reports his cheating experience to Ebuka Mic.Should men give women money? What happens when a lady asks for wig money?Fulfillment shares his story about dating a celebrity's daughter.The crew discusses men’s ego, finances and how "money makes love sweeter."60:00 - Outro & Final Gems👉 LIKE | COMMENT | SUBSCRIBE | SHAREThis is one of the most REAL, UNSCRIPTED, and POWERFUL episodes on men’s struggles, relationships and navigating love in today’s world.#MensMentalHealth #RelationshipPodcast #BlackMenTalk #ChristianDating #PodcastAfrica #ThatIsMyTimePodcast #MenTalkReal #ThinkLikeAMan #LoveAndEgo #CheatingCulture #MasculinityIn2025 #ViralPodcast #NigerianPodcast #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #HotSeatPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #ThatsMyTimePodcast #MensMentalHealth #MensMentalAwarenessMonth #ThinkLikeAMan #ChristianDating #RelationshipPodcast #BlackMenTalk #PodcastDrama #HotSeatPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndMoney #ForgivingCheating #ModernMasculinity #AfricanPodcast #NigerianPodcast #MoneyMakesLoveSweeter #MenTalkReal #RealTalkPodcast #DatingAdviceForMen #ViralPodcast #PodcastClips #LoveAndEgofemi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025NDIC new MD Oludare SundayUniversity Governing Council reshuffleMinimum wage increase Nigeria 2025AMVCA 2025 winnersDavido & Chioma wedding 2025 rumors (this one's always hot 🔥)Wizkid new album 2025BBNaija 2025 housematesSuper Eagles World Cup Qualifiers 2025Victor Osimhen transfer newsAFCON 2025 qualifiersEPL fixtures Nigeria timeTikTok Nigeria trendsNigerian skit makers 2025NaijaNoDeyCarryLastFunny TikTok audios Nigeria 2025Property prices in Lagos 2025Lekki new estate projects 2025How to start real estate business in Nigeria 2025JAMB results 2025WAEC 2025 answers (trust Nigerians 😅)Scholarships for Nigerians 2025Study visa Canada, UK, USA 2025