Thats my Time with Tolu Afilaka

How God Really Speaks – No Audible Voice Needed | Pastor Ayo Ajani (Part 2)In this powerful Part 2 conversation, Pastor Ayo Ajani (Senior Pastor of Petra Christian Centre) shares practical and eye-opening wisdom on how God actually speaks to us in everyday life.He explains why many Christians are being led by God but don’t realize it, the danger of waiting for perfect clarity, and how to move forward even when you’re not 100% sure.Pastor Ayo also addresses:How to hear God while living a very busy lifeHandling personal pain and still showing up with faithLiving fully in the moment as a leaderHis strong, intelligent response to atheism and scienceHis honest and balanced take on women in ministryThis episode is filled with clarity, depth, and actionable insight for anyone who wants to grow in hearing God’s voice and walking in purpose.

Pastor Ayo Ajani: The Brutal Truth About Work Ethic Most Christians IgnoreSenior Pastor of Petra Christian Centre and one of Africa’s most charismatic faith teachers opens up like never before.In this powerful long-overdue conversation, Pastor Ayo Ajani shares raw wisdom on faith, leadership, family, and the seasons of life. From his dramatic journey growing up in a Muslim home to becoming a globally respected pastor, he reveals the hard truths about discipline, vision, and why many gifted young people still fail.Pastor Ayo Ajani explains:Why most people waste their best years and how to stop itThe dangerous cost of relying on talent without structure and systemsHow to build real work ethic that lasts in a distracted worldThe power of vision and why seasons in life are unforgivingWhy love is the most powerful force for genuine changeHow to balance family, marriage, and high-demand ministry without burnoutThe biggest mistake Gen Z is making with their gifts and potentialWhy he’s never afraid to start all over again (Lagos → Abuja → Lagos)What true success really means (it’s not buildings, money or fame)Biblical divine direction for purpose, career, marriage and callingHonest thoughts on honor, questions, and the generation gapThis is Part 1 of a powerful two-part conversation. Part 2 drops soon.👉 Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments below!Which part spoke to you the most — the work ethic, the Gen Z advice, or the story of starting over?🔔 Turn on notifications so you don’t miss Part 2.Connect with Pastor Ayo AjaniInstagram: @officialayoajaniYouTube: Search “Pastor Ayo Ajani” or Petra Christian CentreFollow the host: Tolu Afilaka (@toluafilakaa)

In this powerful episode, Gloria Baba opens up about her journey through fear, faith, loss, and transformation. From conquering public speaking anxiety to navigating marriage, career shifts, and deep personal grief, this conversation delivers raw insight and practical wisdom.You’ll hear how life’s toughest moments can shape purpose, how to rebuild after loss, and what it takes to grow a personal brand while staying true to yourself. This episode is for anyone seeking strength, clarity, and direction in the middle of life’s transitions.What you’ll gain:• Confidence in public speaking and self-expression• Lessons on marriage, growth, and identity• Strength through grief and personal loss• Guidance on building and rebranding your personal brand• Inspiration to pursue purpose beyond setbacks

In this episode with Tolu Afilaka, Ayo Akinola, co-founder of PiggyVest and CEO of PocketApp, shares the real lessons behind building one of Nigeria’s most trusted fintech companies.This is not just a startup success story. It is a conversation about failure, trust, team dynamics, mentorship, relationships, sales, consumer psychology, and what it really takes to build a business that Nigerians believe in.Ayo reflects on the early years before PiggyVest, the failed ventures that shaped his thinking, the co-founder relationships that kept the team going, and the role mentorship played in helping them navigate regulation, uncertainty, and growth.He also explains why PiggyVest’s biggest edge was not just technology, but trust, transparency, and relatability, and how understanding how Nigerians think about money became central to the product’s success.The conversation expands into PocketApp, pricing, packaging, sales, marriage, family support, and how founders can think more clearly about business growth.In this episode:Why growth mindset and environment matter in businessThe role of mentors in navigating business and relationshipsHow Ayo thought about marriage, friendship, and choosing a partnerThe support and tension that came from family while buildingHow PiggyVest measured success in the early yearsWhy trust became the real unique selling pointThe thinking behind PocketApp and how it complements PiggyVestWhy many businesses have a selling problem, not a product problemWhat Nigerians really respond to when they spend moneyWhy packaging, pricing, visibility, and relatability matter in salesAyo’s advice for creators, founders, and anyone trying to grow a productIf you are building a startup, growing a brand, or trying to understand how successful Nigerian businesses are built, this episode is packed with practical insight.

Tolu sits down with Laju Iren, a filmmaker with a passion for creating impactful and faith-driven films. Together, they delve into Laju’s childhood, artistic beginnings, and how her faith plays a pivotal role in her filmmaking process. From her early life to her journey as a filmmaker, this episode provides an intimate look at her story. The episode also covers Laju’s new project ONOBIREN, a Christian film that's set to break new ground in the industry.Episode Breakdown:00:00:00 – Unveiling Laju Iren's Faith-Driven Filmmaking Principles The episode kicks off with Laju sharing her core principles that guide her filmmaking. Faith-driven and intentional, her approach aims to blend deep storytelling with Christian values.00:02:08 – Laju Iren’s Childhood, Family, and Artistic Beginnings Laju opens up about her upbringing, family influences, and how her artistic inclinations took root at an early age. This section sets the stage for understanding the foundation of her creative journey.00:08:24 – Why Laju Iren Prefers Directing Over Acting In this segment, Laju reflects on her experiences with both acting and directing. She reveals why directing speaks to her soul more deeply and how it allows her to tell the stories that truly matter.00:10:48 – Laju Iren’s University Life and Career Shifts Laju shares how her university years shaped her career decisions, including the turning point when she transitioned from other paths to filmmaking. The story behind this shift sheds light on her true calling.00:16:34 – Laju Iren’s Evolution from Blogger to Filmmaker A fascinating segment about Laju’s journey from being a successful blogger to becoming a full-fledged filmmaker. Her evolution highlights the importance of embracing new opportunities and staying true to one’s creative instincts.00:19:18 – Unpacking 'ONOBIREN' and Laju’s Foundational Faith Laju takes us behind the scenes of ONOBIREN, unpacking its themes, vision, and how her foundational faith is woven into the fabric of the film. She discusses the challenges and triumphs of bringing this project to life.00:21:46 – Insights into Apostle Iren’s Work Ethic and Character Laju opens up about her relationship with her father, Apostle Iren, and the lessons she’s learned from his work ethic and character. This section provides an intimate look at how family and faith are intertwined in her professional life.00:30:15 – Laju Iren’s Vision for Relatable Christian Films Laju shares her vision for Christian films that resonate with people from all walks of life. She discusses how faith-based films can break barriers and speak to a broader audience without compromising on their message.00:39:42 – What to Expect from the Artistically Excellent 'ONOBIREN' A sneak peek into ONOBIREN, with Laju offering insights into what audiences can expect from this groundbreaking project. The artistic vision and attention to detail make this a must-watch for fans of Christian cinema.00:44:30 – Navigating the Business and Challenges of Christian Films Laju dives into the business side of filmmaking, including the unique challenges faced by Christian filmmakers. She provides valuable advice on navigating the industry's complexities while staying true to one’s creative and faith-driven values.00:51:25 – How to Champion and Support Christian Storytelling In the final segment, Laju shares actionable advice on how individuals and organizations can support Christian storytelling. She calls on others to join the movement and champion films that inspire faith, hope, and change in society.Laju Iren, ONOBIREN, Christian Filmmaking, Filmmaking Principles, Faith and Film, Tolu Afilaka, Apostle Iren, Christian Cinema, Storytelling, Filmmaker Interviews, Inspirational Films, Filmmaking Journey, Behind the Scenes Filmmaking

In this in-depth conversation on That’s My Time Podcast, Dr. Kemi Oyedepo, the wife of Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr. (son of Bishop David Oyedepo), opens up about her remarkable journey. From growing up in Zimbabwe as a diplomat’s daughter and her international travels, to finding love with Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr., their story is full of faith, perseverance, and incredible experiences.In this episode, Dr. Kemi shares the struggles with low self-esteem, how she found her true purpose in Christ, and how she met Pastor David. She reveals her transition into the Oyedepo family and how she prepared herself to be a pastor's wife at a young age. From overcoming witchcraft attacks in the Winner’s Chapel UK Church to facing media scrutiny, Dr. Kemi discusses the challenges of being in the public eye and her journey of faith through it all.She opens up about her personal life, including her weight loss journey, the importance of physical and spiritual fitness, and her thoughts on Christian marriage. From communication in marriage to divorce, Dr. Kemi shares her wisdom on how couples can thrive in their relationships with God at the center. The episode touches on practical advice for inter-tribal marriages, family dynamics, and much more.Tune in to hear Dr. Kemi’s heartwarming story, as she discusses family, faith, and life as a high-profile pastor’s wife.#DrKemiOyedepo #PastorDavidOyedepoJnr #BishopDavidOyedepo #MarriageAndFaith #PastorsWife #ChristianMarriage #ChristianLife #FaithJourney #WomensHealth #RelationshipGoals #CommunicationInMarriage #SpiritualGrowth #WeightLossJourney #InterTribalMarriages #DivorceIsNotAnOption #RelationshipAdvice #FamilyWisdom #WifeGoals #LoveAndMarriage #PowerCouple #LifeInMinistryDr. Kemi Oyedepo, Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr, Bishop David Oyedepo, relationship advice, Christian marriage, pastors wife life, weight loss journey, faith journey, communication in marriage, marriage is for life, inter-tribal marriages, family and faith, relationship struggles, marriage counseling, marriage tips, divorce in Christianity, family wisdom, life as a pastor's wife, relationship red flags, spiritual fitness, health and marriage, overcoming witchcraft in church

In this episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka hosts a deep, no-holds-barred conversation with guests from different belief systems. The discussion moves from Chioma’s experiences of spiritual sensitivity and her connection to water, to portals, altars, and why blood magic is rejected. The table debates whether Jesus is the only way, the role of religion in power and control, and how people hide traditional practices while still attending church. From there it goes into God’s nature, Noah’s flood, “we are gods,” reincarnation, Ogbanje, Akashic records, and dreams that leave marks. A tense section follows on T.B. Joshua and SCOAN, deliverance, fear, and prayer water. The final stretch challenges listeners with words as spells, psalms as spell words, money and protection psalms, return to sender, hellfire, and the idea that love is the real solution.

In this heartfelt Christmas special episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Tunmise and Adepoju for an honest, soul-searching conversation about faith, devotion, and the realities of walking with God in 2025.This episode is not about perfection. It is about process.Tunmise reflects on a faith journey rooted in her youth and shaped by intentional growth, personal encounters with God, and a genuine hunger for intimacy with Him. She shares how her devotion evolved beyond routine into a lived, experiential relationship built on understanding and surrender.Adepoju opens up about the highs and lows of his Christian walk, revealing how ministry, service, and life pressures tested and refined his faith. He speaks candidly about balancing responsibility with relationship, navigating seasons of distance, and finding strength in God through uncertainty.Together, they explore what it truly means to reconnect with God after spiritual burnout, how to heal from church hurt, and why structured scripture study, prayer, and community are essential for spiritual renewal. The conversation also challenges listeners to reflect deeply on one defining questionWho is Jesus to you really?This episode doubles as a Christmas reflection and a 2025 spiritual wrap up, offering listeners a moment to pause, reset, and realign their hearts for the year ahead.If you are questioning, rebuilding, or seeking a deeper walk with God, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.TIMESTAMPS00:00 – 01:30 Introduction02:27 – 16:15 Tunmise’s Christian walk in 202516:15 – 22:35 Adepoju’s Christian walk in 202522:35 – 25:31 Tolu Afilaka’s Christian walk in 202525:31 – 27:07 Having people praying for you27:07 – 34:57 Stirring up devotion with God34:57 – 50:45 Prayer life and relationship with God50:45 – 1:11:06 Who is Jesus to you#ThatsMyTimePodcast#ToluAfilaka#ChristianPodcast#FaithJourney#WalkingWithGod#christianlife Christian podcast, That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka, Christmas special podcast, faith in 2025, Christian walk 2025, walking with God, knowing Jesus, relationship with God, prayer life, devotion to God, spiritual growth, faith journey, Christian youth podcast, Nigerian Christian podcast, church hurt healing, spiritual burnout recovery, reconnecting with God, Christian conversations, prayer and scripture study, devotional podcast, Christian reflection, Christmas faith reflection, 2025 spiritual wrap up, personal faith stories, Christian lifestyle podcast, ministry and faith balance, rebuilding faith, intimacy with God, Jesus Christ discussion, prayer community, Christian mental and spiritual health, end of year faith reflection, Christian growth podcast, faith based conversations

In this deeply introspective and emotionally charged episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Olushola Olaleye for a profound conversation about masculinity, vulnerability, spiritual responsibility, success, pain, leadership, and the silent emotional battles men fight daily.From the first moment, it becomes clear that this episode is not entertainment it's therapy, mentorship, and revelation wrapped into one. Whether you’re a man trying to understand yourself or a woman trying to understand men, this conversation will shift your mindset forever.Olushola Olaleye takes us through the story of his calling, the spiritual nudges that shaped him, and the mentorship of Pastor Emmanuel Iren that grounded and refined his purpose. He speaks openly about his mother’s sacrifice after losing his father, the humility she instilled, and how her resilience became the foundation of his emotional and spiritual maturity.This episode explores childhood wounds, the pressure of parental expectations, how success is actually maintained, and why self-leadership not talent—is the true mark of greatness. We dive into masculinity, male emotional repression, why men struggle to open up, and the staggering reality of suicide among men worldwide.The conversation goes deeper into relationships, marriage preparation, adulthood, societal pressure, and the burden many African men carry. Pastor Olaleye confronts cultural misconceptions, unlearning toxic masculinity, empathy for men, and how emotional maturity is essential for building healthy homes.We also touch on AI’s disruption of jobs, what young Nigerians need to survive the future, and the kind of leadership he would implement if he were president.This episode is raw, insightful, confronting, and healing. Share it with every man and every woman who loves a man.TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – 15:00 The Calling, The Presence & Early Spiritual Nudges• Introduction to Pastor Olushola Olaleye• Tolu reflects on his grace, presence, and spiritual weight• How Olaleye knew he was called from childhood15:00 – 30:00 | Childhood Pain, His Mother’s Strength & Foundations of Masculinity• Losing his father and watching his mother carry the family• Lessons of humility, tenderness, compassion• How pain shaped his emotional intelligence• Accepting spiritual responsibility early• How upbringing prepared him for deeper leadership• The moment he realized he was born different30:00 – 45:00 | Convincing Parents, Building Track Record & Understanding Real Success• How to make your parents trust your choices• Why many young adults fail at communicating with parents• Track record: the language parents understand45:00 – 60:00 | Male Vulnerability, Emotional Repression & Suicide Awareness• Where men’s emotional pain comes from• Why the pain of men is invisible in society• Emotional maturity: can women handle the truth?• Why we MUST be kinder to men• Men vs women: emotional processing differences• SLK being underrated & men who feel unseen• Why men should cry more—even if not as much as women1:00:00 – 1:39:00 | Brotherhood, Marriage Pressure, AI Disruption & Hope for Nigeria• Why every man needs a brotherhood circle• What it means to “chest" things as a man• Teasing SLK about never dating• Financial pressure of marriage preparation for men• How to prepare for marriage the smart way• Major on the minor: principles for adulthood• AI disruption and job loss—how to survive it• Why AI is about knowledge application• Is there hope for Nigeria?• What Pastor Olaleye would do if he were president• Final thoughts & blessingsQUESTION FOR YOU:What’s the most misunderstood thing about men today?Comment below we read everything.If you found this powerful, LIKE, SHARE & SUBSCRIBE.Turn on notifications for weekly conversations that shift your mindset.mens mental health, emotional maturity, masculinity podcast, self leadership, AI and future of work, purpose and calling#PastorOlaleye#MensMentalHealth#Masculinity2025#NigerianPodcast