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4. that work...on grief + navigating newer friendships in LA (part 2)

Season 1, Ep. 4

❤️Trigger warning ❤️

This episode (my 4th!) is a kinda-sorta part 2 of my last episode but this time I am discussing being in grief this past year (and the past six years) while navigating newer friendships in LA. This feels super personal to me and I am a bit scared to share it, afraid of how my pain can be used against me but in the spirit of embracing vulnerability and stepping into my purpose, I hope this episode finds who it needs to find and you know that we're together in this journey. ❤️


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