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Pt 3: Myths from the Labour Ward | The Infertile Midwife, Sophie Martin
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Can spicy food actually put you into labour? In part 3, Sophie Martin and Dr Alex bust some myths from the labour ward.
Plus, they discuss the problems in women’s healthcare and some of the possible solutions, and how to support people going through baby loss.
Follow Sophie @the.infertile.midwife and get her book The Infertile Midwife: In Search of Motherhood
For support around baby loss, check out Tommys.org
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