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70. Raj Jana: Mastering Your Emotional Triggers

Season 2, Ep. 70

In this episode of Stay Grounded, host Raj Jana and guest Alex explore the transformative power of understanding our emotional triggers. Rather than viewing triggers as obstacles to avoid, they discuss how these moments of emotional intensity can serve as gateways to profound self-discovery and personal growth. Through their own experiences and insights, they reveal how developing awareness around our triggers can become our greatest tool for emotional resilience and authentic living.


What You'll Discover:

- Why awareness is the most powerful medicine for emotional healing and how it automatically increases your resilience

- The surprising reason your triggers keep repeating and what this pattern is trying to tell you

- How stored emotions from your past create present-day reactions (and what to do about it)

- The three essential qualities needed to work with triggers effectively

- Why the goal isn't to eliminate triggers but to expand your capacity to experience life fully

- A fresh perspective on purpose and how it relates to your trigger responses

- The delicate balance between processing triggers and maintaining healthy relationships

- Why self-compassion is crucial when doing this inner work

- Practical steps for staying present when triggered instead of numbing or avoiding

- The revolutionary approach to mental health that starts with turning the mirror inward


Key Takeaway:

Mastering your emotional triggers isn't about eliminating them—it's about developing the awareness to transform them into opportunities for growth. When you learn to lean into these challenging moments with curiosity and compassion, each trigger becomes a treasure that reveals more of your authentic self and expands your capacity to live life fully. The path to emotional mastery begins not with fighting your triggers, but with understanding them as guideposts on your journey to personal liberation.


Connect with Raj:


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Website: http://www.rajjana.com/

Instagram: @raj_jana

iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/rs/podcast/stay-grounded-with-raj-jana/id1318038490

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_jana



Legal Disclaimer: The information and opinions discussed in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only. The host and guests are not medical or mental health professionals, and their advice should not be a substitute for seeking professional help. Any action taken based on the information presented is strictly at your own risk. The podcast host and their guests shall have neither liability nor responsibility to any person or entity with respect to any loss, damage, or injury caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly by information shared in this podcast. Consult your physician before making any changes to your mental health treatment or lifestyle.



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