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S5 Ep 44 Navigating Funky Days: Finding Flow and Reconnecting
Season 5, Ep. 44
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In this episode of *Soul Leaders*, Mills candidly shares how she navigates those off days where everything feels disjointed, using her own morning experiences as an example. She discusses ways to reset your mindset, particularly for business owners or creatives who may feel disconnected or in a slump. Mills introduces practical strategies for reigniting motivation, including the power of reusing content, journaling, breathwork, and reconnecting with nature. Throughout the episode, she emphasizes the importance of finding personal routines that resonate and letting go of rigid expectations.
- **[0:01:39]** - It’s normal to feel out of flow, especially as business owners.Mills emphasizes the importance of not always having to be “on” and introduces a mindset shift: “It's okay not to be at 100% all the time.”
- **[0:02:48]** - A content strategy tip: Reuse content when you’re not feeling creative. Mills encourages listeners to take the pressure off themselves by revisiting old posts and ideas, avoiding burnout.
- **[0:03:39]** - Mindset hack: Journaling. Asking yourself, “How am I feeling right now?” and using tools like hypnosis or meditation to shift your energy.
- **[0:05:03]** - Discovering what practices resonate for you personally, whether through breathwork, meditation, or even spending time in nature.
- [0:06:31] - Practical suggestions on free resources like YouTube for breathwork and meditation.
- [0:07:24] - The *Miracle Morning* story: Mills reflects on how rigid routines can sometimes feel counterproductive, leading her to tailor practices like exercise, meditation, and journaling to fit her life in a more flexible way.
- [0:09:03] - The importance of not forcing yourself to do routines at prescribed times—find what works for you, and do it on your own schedule.
- [0:11:49] - Personal anecdotes about how smaller, manageable routines like 10-minute breathwork can be just as powerful as longer sessions.
- [0:12:15] - Final takeaway: “Slow down to speed up your magnetism.” It’s important to recognize when you’re off and gently guide yourself back into flow.
- [0:12:47] - Mills invites listeners to share their own mindset practices and routines via Instagram DMs and encourages an open conversation.
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- Slow down to speed up your magnetism. – Mills on the importance of rest and mindfulness in recharging yourself.
Fave mediations - Deepak chopra
fave breathwork tips - listen to episode *42
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