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Small Talk! With Alec Cuenca - Motivation & Mindset Podcast
questions to ask before you hit 30s
Ep. 414
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welcome to my new solo series where i just talk through what’s been on my mind lately... no guests, no structure, just me trying to make sense of life in real time. it's just me trying to make sense of life in real time. today’s episode is a mid-year reset session. we’re halfway through 2026, and it’s a simple check-in on where you are, what you need to let go of, and what you should double down on for the rest of the year.
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