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Should I Delete That?

Just Us: White Lotus, information overload and a bad wax

This week - Em’s recovering from a patchy wax and Al has an Is It Just Me about information overload. We discuss the conundrum of leaving bad reviews, brands that don’t pay their influencers and the joy of seeing men get toupees. 


We also chat about White Lotus - and there’s a strong loved it vs hated it divide in the studio. 


Do you have an Is It Just Me for us? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com 


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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Emma-Kirsty Fraser

Music: Alex Andrew

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