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Should I Delete That?

Just Us: This should stay private

Brace yourselves…. we’ve got an awkward episode for you today. 


Em and Alex start us off by sharing some awkward accidental online encounters and tales of naked hilarity… then we dive into your awkwards. Prepare to have sticky toffee pudding ruined for you for the rest of your life…


We also ask a question about parody videos - Em Rata blocked Celeste Barber after she posted parodies of her online. Should people who post online be prepared to be parodied? And why do we feel like it’s okay to make fun of beautiful people online? 


Do you have an awkward tale for us? We wanna hear it! Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com


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@em_clarkson

@alexlight_ldn


Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Emma-Kirsty Fraser

Music: Alex Andrew

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