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Session 26: Psychology of Love, Dating, & Connection

This week on Sessions with Shawna, we’re diving deep into the wild world of love, attraction, and relationships! Ever wondered why you’re drawn to certain people or why modern dating feels like a chaotic reality show? Shawna breaks down the psychology behind attraction, attachment styles, love languages, and the ex-effect —so you can finally make sense of your love life. She’s also spilling on why dating today is so complicated, how to recognize (and break) unhealthy patterns, and what could actually make relationships last. And of course, she’s got life updates plus a game-changing app recommendation to level up your shopping game!


See you in session! 


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