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Trusting Others with Our Authentic Selves

Season 2, Ep. 11

Summary

In this episode, Peggy Easterling discusses the importance of finding safe relationships and learning to trust others with our authentic selves. She shares her personal journey of overcoming childhood trauma and the walls of self-protection she had built. Peggy emphasizes the value of community and finding safe spaces where we can be vulnerable and share our stories. She also highlights the power of renewing our minds with Scripture and affirmations to combat the lies and negative self-talk. Ultimately, Peggy encourages listeners to trust in God's plan, take their thoughts captive, and walk in their full calling.


Takeaways

  • Finding safe relationships and learning to trust others is essential for personal growth and healing.
  • Community plays a vital role in providing support and a safe space for vulnerability.
  • Renewing the mind with Scripture and affirmations helps combat negative self-talk and builds trust in oneself.
  • Trusting in God's plan and taking thoughts captive are key to walking in one's full calling.

Bio

Peggy Easterling is a Certified Christian Mindset Coach, Speaker, and Mentor, and the founder of The Mindset School. She has dedicated her career to empowering women to overcome past challenges and step boldly into their God-given purposes. At The Mindset School, Peggy offers personalized coaching, transformational workshops, and a supportive community, each tailored to help women rediscover their dreams and align their lives with God’s purpose.


Connect with Peggy

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