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Navigating Relationship Stress with Linda and Charlie Bloom
No relationship is perfect. Despite what tv shows and movies tell us, it’s normal to have differences, it’s normal to get angry, and it’s normal to go through periods of turbulence. It’s how these periods are handled, however, that is the real indicator as to whether the relationship will survive.
Linda and Charlie Bloom are trained psychotherapists and relationship counselors. Married since 1972, Linda and Charlie have lectured throughout the US and conducted seminars across the world on relationships and how to navigate them. On this episode, Linda and Charlie join me to discuss the ideas behind their latest book - An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships. They break down why arguing can be good, and where it goes bad, and offer a plethora of helpful advice for couples and individuals in all kinds of relationships.
Tune in to Episode 177 and start bettering your relationships with Linda and Charlie Bloom.
Some Questions I Ask:
What do you do when you're not writing a best-selling book? (3:18)
Is arguing necessarily bad? (10:17)
Tell us about the book. What's in it, and why should we want to read it? (16:50)
In This Episode, You Will Learn:
About Linda and Charlie’s journey as a couple (5:27)
About the line that shouldn’t be crossed when expressing your feelings to another person (14:04)
When it’s time for a couple to see a couple’s counselor (15:00)
What Linda and Charlie would like readers to take away from their book, An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships (20:57)
Linda and Charlie’s advice for new/young couples (23:37)
Linda and Charlie’s advice for couples who have fallen into unhealthy habits (28:21)
Resources
Linda and Charlie’s new book - An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships
Linda and Charlie’s other books:
101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married
That Which Doesn’t Kill Us: How One Couple Became Stronger at the Broken Places
Happily Ever After and 39 Other Myths About Love
Connect with Linda and Charlie Bloom
Useful REJUVENAGING® Resources
Website: https://www.thementalhealthgym.com/
Book: Dr. Ron Kaiser -Rejuvenaging: The Art and Science of Growing Older with Enthusiasm
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