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S6 Ep. 10: People Hurt Us to Help Us
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Paradigm shift alert! In this episode, we’ll dive into the intriguing concept of soul contracts - pre-life agreements we’ve made with others - so you can understand your relationship challenges in a whole new light. When you learn to accept the powerful truth that people hurt us to help us grow, you break free from blame and victimhood, unlocking the path to genuine personal growth.
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