Primas Pero Not Really

This one is for the parents… and honestly, for all of us.How do you know when attention becomes control?This week on Primas Pero Not Really, we sat down with clinical psychologist Luz Maria Berrio to talk about the relationship conversations more families should be having earlier.We get into:🚩 Red flags vs pink flags❤️ Love bombing vs genuine interest📍 Why teens share locations🧠 Narcissistic traits vs actual narcissism🚧 Boundaries vs control👩‍👧 Signs parents should pay attention to in teen relationships📱 How social media is changing relationships for teens—and adultsOne moment that really stayed with us:Just because something feels like love… doesn’t always mean it’s healthy.We talk about what’s normal, what’s not, and how parents can create space for these conversations without judgment.And somehow… we also ended up talking about identity, growing up, and why adults may not be as different from teenagers as we think.

Rebecca aka “The Dude” joins Las Primas for one of the most honest conversations we’ve had yet.From raising a nonverbal autistic son to navigating dating as a single mom, this episode dives into the realities people rarely talk about out loud. We talk about parenting, co-parenting, relationships, emotional safety, friendship, identity, and what it really means to show up for the people you love.The conversation also takes some unexpected turns:✨ Dating as a single lesbian mom✨ The reality of modern dating✨ Co-parenting after divorce✨ Raising a child with special needs✨ Friendship, loyalty, and support✨ Why relationships fail✨ Healing generational patterns✨ and why Rebecca might actually be “the worst lesbian ever” 😂This episode is funny, emotional, chaotic, and deeply human, exactly how Primas conversations should feel.👇 Tell us in the comments:What’s something nobody warns you about when it comes to relationships or parenting?#PrimasPeroNotReally #SingleMomLife #Podcast #Dating #CoParenting

We all try to be gentle parents… until we’re not.In this episode of Primas Pero Not Really, Las Primas get real about parenting in today’s world, what works, what doesn’t, and the moments no one talks about. From trying to help kids regulate their emotions, to losing patience, to realizing every child needs a different approach, this is real mom talk, unfiltered.We get into:Gentle parenting vs real-life reactionsTeaching kids emotional regulationWhy can’t you parent every child the sameDiscipline, consequences, and respectMom guilt, overstimulation, and losing your coolPreparing kids for the real worldWhy college isn’t the only path to successThis episode is for moms in the trenches—figuring it out day by day, making mistakes, learning, and showing up anyway.Because parenting is real and isn’t perfect.💬 If you’ve ever gone from calm to “don’t test me” in 0.5 seconds… this one’s for you.

Going from two incomes to one changes everything.In this episode of Primas Pero Not Really, Las Primas talk about what it really looks like to adjust financially after separation and major life changes. From learning how to live large on a smaller budget, to rethinking everyday spending, to figuring out what’s actually necessary… this conversation is honest, relatable, and very real.They get into: Life after separation and financial adjustmentsLiving on one income (and sometimes none)Budgeting without losing your lifestyle completelyCutting back on events, birthdays, and daily habitsPride, independence, and learning as you goThis isn’t about perfect budgeting.It’s about real life, real decisions, and figuring it out in the moment.If you’ve ever had to adjust your lifestyle or rethink your finances… this episode will hit.

What men carry isn’t always visible—and most of the time, they don’t talk about it.In this episode of Primas Pero Not Really, we sit down with JC Perez—husband, father, and co-founder of Cultura Media House—to talk about men’s mental health, fatherhood, and the pressure of being “the man” in today’s world.From marriage and communication, to raising boys in a different social landscape, to why men often stay silent even when they’re struggling… this conversation gets real.We get into: Men’s mental health and emotional pressure. Fatherhood and raising boys today. Masculinity and modern expectations. The communication on marriage and relationships.Why men don’t open up—and what that leads to.This is an honest one.If you’ve ever wondered what men are actually dealing with behind the scenes… this episode is for you.

Is it just us, or did everyone forget to mention the massive identity crisis that comes with parenthood? In this episode, the Primas are getting raw and real about the "Parenting Transition"—that jarring shift from being a spontaneous individual to a 24/7 manager of a tiny human.We aren't talking about diapers or sleep schedules; we’re diving into the psychological toll of mourning your "pre-kid" self, the invisible mental load that keeps you up at night, and the awkward "friendship gap" that happens when your social circle isn't on the same page.In this conversation, the Primas open up about:Losing your sense of self after becoming a momKids growing up and becoming more independentFinding purpose again in a new chapter of lifeThe chaos of parenting, schedules, and daily responsibilitiesGenerational differences in parenting and communicationThis episode is honest, emotional, and relatable for anyone navigating change — whether it’s motherhood, co-parenting, or simply entering a new season of life.🎙️ Follow the show and share it with someone going through the same transition.-=============================This episode BROUGHT TO YOU BY: 🎪*THE FAIR* : https://www.fairexpo.com/=============================🕒 TIMESTAMPS0:00 — Introduction: Life updates and the "Primas" catch-up4:15 — The Identity Crisis: Transitioning from "Individual" to "Parent"11:30 — The Grief of Your Former Self: Why it’s okay to miss your old life18:45 — Navigating the "Friendship Gap": When your social circle changes27:10 — The Invisible Mental Load: Understanding the 24/7 "Manager" role35:50 — Social Media vs. Reality: Debunking "Aesthetic Parenting"44:20 — Relationship Strains: Keeping the spark alive amidst the chaos52:15 — Reclaiming Your Personal Identity: Finding "You" again

Real life doesn’t follow a script…and neither do these conversations.In this special compilation of Primas Pero Not Really, we bring together the most powerful, funny, and honest moments from Episodes 5 to 8. From co-parenting challenges and putting ego aside for your kids, to dating, relationships, and the everyday chaos of motherhood, this episode captures what real life actually looks like.We talk about:▪︎ Co-parenting dynamics and finding balance▪︎ Fun dad vs strict mom struggles▪︎ Blended families, forgiveness, and growth▪︎ Dating, relationships, and modern expectations▪︎ Humor, culture, and unfiltered life moments🎥 Watch now and catch the best moments from Season 1.💬 Comment your favorite clip or moment.📌 Subscribe for more real conversations, culture, and chaos.-=============================This episode BROUGHT TO YOU BY: 🎪*THE FAIR* : https://www.fairexpo.com/=============================

Dating, divorce, relationships, co-parenting, and real-life Latina conversations, this episode brings together the best moments from Episodes 1–4 of Primas Pero Not Really.From rushed engagements and bad proposals to healing after divorce, dating struggles, boundaries, and cultural moments that hit close to home, Las Primas keep it honest, unfiltered, and relatable.This is a mix of humor, hard truths, and the kind of conversations most people don’t say out loud — but everyone understands.💬 Comment your favorite clip or moment.📌 Subscribe for more real conversations, culture, and chaos.-=============================This episode BROUGHT TO YOU BY: 🎪*THE FAIR* : https://www.fairexpo.com/=============================👯‍♀️ *Primas…Pero Not Really**Chapters*00:00 – Introduction: Best of Primas03:30 – The Worst Proposal Stories 😂06:30 – Holding On Too Long in Relationships09:30 – What Divorce Really Teaches You12:30 – Independence, Boundaries & Growth15:30 – Abuela Sayings & Cultural Moments18:30 – Dating After Divorce: Red Flags 🚩21:30 – The “Dating Checklist” Is Real24:30 – Co-Parenting & Parenting Styles27:30 – Why Dating Gets Complicated30:00 – Final Thoughts & Real Talk Outro