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I Had a Stroke at 33 Years Old: Why I'm Now a Health & Infertility Advocate.

To many SoulCycle riders and fans, Master Instructor Emma Zaks looks like the model of good health as she inspires people in her weekly classes to live up to their fullest potential. Others know Emma from her time on Broadway, following in her parents footsteps.


What some of her fans and followers may not know is that Emma is also a stroke survivor and an infertility advocate. Navigating her undiagnosed autoimmune disease in her early 30s & and now struggling to conceive with her husband, popular child actor Geoffrey Wigdor, has inspired Emma to speak out and use her voice to advocate for change, so other people navigating confusing and upsetting health diagnoses like these don't feel as unsupported and alone. 


This episode is supported by Donor Egg Bank USA, the only egg bank in America with the 100% Assured Refund Plan™  guaranteeing that you'll bring home a baby or you'll receive your money back. To lean more, visit www.donoreggbankusa.com


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