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Moment #89: My #1 Hack for Overcoming Self-Interest

Moment #89 // You can tell the character of a leader by watching what they do under pressure. Some choose to do what’s in the best interests of their team and their company. Others just let gravity take over, and head down the slippery slope of self-interest.


If you want to be a strong leader – a person of character – you need to work out how to overcome your self-interest.


I stumbled across an awesome hack many years ago that was pivotal for me in learning to put my own self-interest aside. In this Moment, I share that technique with you. 


If you want to explore ways to tame your most fundamental behavioral driver, have a listen to Ep.125: Can You Coach Character?


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