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Moment #32: Emotional Resilience in Corporate Chaos

Moment #32 // I went through some incredibly disruptive events during my corporate career - and it's fair to say that some of them pushed me to the edge of my personal capacity.  


Despite the personal toll, when I look back I’m so grateful that I was able to experience those situations. I never felt that there was anything I couldn't ultimately handle, and the accelerated learning that I took from each situation really turbocharged my career. 


I couldn't have achieved anywhere near what I did if I was leading people in a warm, stable, and comfortable environment.


You can take a deeper dive into these insights by listening to Ep.224: Leading Through Major Upheaval.


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