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Moment 169. Why Family Culture Destroys Performance

I’ve advised many CEO / Founders over the last 5 years. My first job is often to convince them that the family culture they treasure so fondly is the biggest impediment to performance improvement.


In this Moment, I explore the four biggest drawbacks to family culture. But they are by no means the exclusive domain of family businesses: they’ll sound familiar to those of you who work in large listed companies and government agencies alike. 


If you want to know how to drive high performance in a family business, have a listen to Ep.76: The Family Affair.


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