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812 imposter syndrome as a strength, navigating unspoken conflict & leading well when you're new
Ever felt like a fraud at work? Good. In this episode of this is work, Shelley and Emily cover three big leadership topics — reframing imposter syndrome, dealing with unspoken conflict on your team, and how to nail your first 90 days as a new leader.
In this episode:
- Why imposter syndrome is a green flag, not a red one
- The ODD framework for surfacing unspoken team conflict
- How to use silence strategically in tough conversations
- Your month by month 90 day leadership plan
Connect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/
If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/
Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrr
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11. 811 weaponised incompetence: what to watch for, how to address it & when your competence gets used against you
44:34||Season 8, Ep. 11In this week's episode of this is work, Shelley and Emily dive into weaponised incompetence in the workplace — everything from how to spot it and the exact words to use when addressing it, right through to what happens when it flips and your own competence gets used against you.In this episode we cover:What is weaponised incompetencePlaying to your strengths vs weaponising a weaknessScripts and one liners to address it with a colleagueThe flip side: when your competence gets weaponisedSigns your manager is using your competence against youCheck out Shelley's Sydney Morning Herald article on weaponised incompetence:https://www.smh.com.au/business/workplace/weaponised-incompetence-is-rife-at-work-here-s-how-to-shut-it-down-20260226-p5o5qf.htmlConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
10. 810 burnout and mental fitness: how to stay well, when things are not well
44:51||Season 8, Ep. 10The world feels pretty chaotic right now — and if you're someone who prides yourself on high performance, that chaos can quietly push you toward burnout before you even see it coming.In this episode, Shelley sits down with mental fitness and leadership specialist, Joel Pilgrim to talk about what it actually means to stay well when everything around you feels uncertain.In this episode we cover:Why mental fitness is just like physical fitness — and what your daily practice should look likeThe 5-step model for performing under pressure without burning outWhat recovery actually looks like for high achievers (and why it's not self-care)How to find your flow state and why it matters more than you thinkWhy vulnerability is a leadership skill, not a weaknessTW: SuicideConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
9. 809 dysfunctional workplaces, career move to a start-up & can leaders really work fewer hours?
33:12||Season 8, Ep. 9In this episode of this is work, Shelley Johnson and Emily Bowen answer real listener questions about:• Supporting someone stuck with a toxic boss• What to do when a team is dysfunctional in every way• Switching from a poorly paid corporate job to a start-up• Whether leadership roles and fewer hours can realistically coexistIf you're navigating workplace dysfunction, considering a bold career move or stepping into leadership, this one’s for you.Connect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
8. 808 how to lead hard conversations, support your team and go from doer to leader
31:07||Season 8, Ep. 8In this episode of this is work, Shelley answer your questions about some of the hardest parts of leadership and career growth.In this episode she unpacks:• How to give feedback to someone who takes things personally• When and how to schedule tricky conversations• How to support a team member whose personal life is chaotic (without overstepping)• The mindset shift from being the go-to doer to becoming a developer of others• The biggest barrier to learning and growth at workIf you lead a team, aspire to step into leadership, or want to keep growing in your career, this episode will give you practical strategies you can use immediately.Connect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
7. 807 how to find a mentor, build future-proof skills & selling your ideas at work
35:37||Season 8, Ep. 7Want a mentor but don’t know where to start? Struggling to sell your ideas to senior leaders? Wondering what skills actually matter in a world of AI and constant change?In this episode of this is work, Shelley is joined by her guest, Adrian Smith to answer your career questions, they unpack:👉🏼 How to find a mentor (without making it awkward or overly formal)👉🏾 Why you don’t need “one” mentor — but mentoring moments👉🏽The 3 skills that will future-proof your career👉🏿 How to sell your ideas inside a business👉🏽 How to influence senior leaders (without being “that” person)👉🏿 Why curiosity might be your biggest career advantageIf you want to stay relevant, grow your confidence and have more impact at work — this episode is for you.Connect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
6. 806 when to change jobs, taking career risks & is my new job a bad fit?
32:17||Season 8, Ep. 6Thinking about a big career move but terrified it might blow up your life? Or wondering if you’ve stayed in your job too long? This episode is for you.Shell answers real listener questions about:👉🏼 How to manage fear when you’re considering a major career change👉🏾 The difference between reversible vs irreversible decisions👉🏽 Whether you’re stagnating or still growing👉🏿 How to tell if a new job is a bad fit… or just uncomfortable because it’s new👉🏽 How to weigh up a $10K pay rise vs long-term values👉🏿 The “future regret test” you need to tryIf you’re stuck between “what if it fails?” and the quieter question “what if it works?” — this one’s for you.Connect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
805 from the vault: 8 ways to become an opportunity magnet
20:23||Season 8Want to attract cool career opportunities? Get this episode in your ears! Here's how to level up.Learn more about the CliftonStrengths assessmentListen: Simon Sinek's podcast, A Bit of OptimismShell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
804 from the vault: 4 ways to make more money in your career
47:46||Season 8No new episode this week as Shell's lost her voice but we've got a goodie for you from when the show was called my millennial career! Glen joins Shell to explain 4 key ways increase your income and uncap your earning potential.The Advanced Income Quadrant: https://www.sortyourcareerout.com/blog/4-ways-to-increase-your-incomeShell and Glen's book, Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money: https://www.sortyourcareerout.com/The pay rise episodes mentioned in the episode:602 pay rises part 1: the secrets your boss doesn't want you to know602b pay rises part 2: case studies from the communityConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/We hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.