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How To Combine Authenticity And Leadership

Season 3, Ep. 7

Is connecting authentically with your team members as a leader possible? Is it even necessary?


In this episode, I'm joined by our Writer in Residence, Heidi Stangeland, and our Marketing Director, Zachary Houghton, to discuss authenticity in leadership. We analyze the relevance of being authentic in leadership roles, how it can shape our relationships with clients and employees, and define our leadership style. 


Throughout this episode, you'll hear how authenticity boosts confidence in leadership roles, how to master authenticity, and why you should "believe it till you achieve it instead of faking it till you make it." We also discuss how to avoid being pulled down by colleagues or team members when they are at their lowest and how writing down your thoughts can help you stay grounded, regain focus, and rebuild confidence.  


Tune into episode 6 of Become Famous For What You Do, and learn how being authentic can help you take your leadership to the next level.


In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • Authenticity equals confidence (2:21)
  • How to tap into your confidence. Regardless of how uncomfortable it might be (4:26)
  • How to be authentic (5:19)
  • How to deal with a colleague pulling us down (10:53)
  • Writing down your feelings is instrumental for grounding and centering yourself (16:41)
  • Why you should always keep your assumptions in check (21:02)


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