Move Your Mind with Nick Bracks

Have you ever been triggered in a relationship and thought, “Why am I reacting like this?”In this episode, I’m joined by Vienna Pharaon, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, to explain how your past shapes your nervous system, and why that’s what’s really running your relationship patterns.We break down the “family blueprint,” why you’re drawn to what’s familiar, and how to move from survival mode into choice, so you can respond differently when you’re activated instead of repeating the same cycle.This episode will help you change your life by changing your relationship with your past.Vienna Pharaon is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in New York.Timestamps:(00:00) Introduction(00:31) The Impact of Family on Future Relationships(02:24) The Role of Awareness and Practice in Healing(04:23) The Importance of Consistency in Personal Growth(06:46) Navigating Familial and Romantic Relationships(09:27) The Subtle Triggers of the Nervous System(11:15) The Challenge of Isolation and Healing(15:25) Choosing Different Patterns in Relationships(20:33) Addressing Origin Wounds for True Healing(24:23) Personal Story: Overcoming Past Patterns(26:35) The Power of Setting Boundaries(27:48) Surviving the Emotional Aftermath(29:11) The Importance of Community Support(30:04) The Reality of Personal Change(34:14) Immersion Therapy and Personal Growth(41:00) Navigating Relationships and Self-Protection(45:12) About the Book and Final ThoughtsGet the FREE Move Your Mind Masterclass here:go.nickbracks.com/moveyourmindAccess FREE Move Your Mind training here:https://go.moveyourmind.io/trainingConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Vienna:Quiz: https://viennapharaon.com/origin-wound-quiz/ The Origin Healing Method: https://courses.viennapharaon.com/the-origin-healing-method Website: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmft/

Do you ever wake up after a night of drinking feeling anxious, ashamed, and confused - like you can’t trust yourself… even if nothing “that bad” happened?In this episode, I’m joined by Kathryn Elliott, a Specialist Binge Drinking and Alcohol Coach, to break down what binge drinking is doing to your mind and why so many people think they’re “just anxious,” when alcohol is the actually causing it..We unpack the loop that keeps you stuck: drinking to cope, waking up with anxiety and self-criticism, then drinking again to escape it. We also talk about the “tipping point,” why your brain clings to familiar pain, and how to handle the social pressure of not drinking without feeling like you’re letting people down.This episode will help you change your life by changing your relationship with alcohol.Kathryn Elliott is a Specialist Binge Drinking and Alcohol Coach.Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction(00:23) The Impact of Alcohol on Anxiety(01:25) The Journey to Sobriety(04:09) Social Pressures and Personal Boundaries(05:48) Mindset Shifts and Long-Term Benefits(09:40) Self-Compassion and Resilience(14:30) Reflecting on the Past: Regrets and Lessons(20:46) Practical Advice: Moderation and Awareness(27:22) The Dangers of Alcohol: Personal Reflections(28:20) The Consequences of Drunk Decisions(30:53) The Alter Ego: Drunk Personas(34:20) Mental Health and Alcohol(37:13) Health Implications of Alcohol(42:01) Societal Norms and Alcohol(51:12) Personal Reflections and Advice(54:41) ConclusionGet the FREE Move Your Mind Masterclass here:go.nickbracks.com/moveyourmindAccess FREE Move Your Mind training here:https://go.moveyourmind.io/trainingConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Kathryn:https://www.thealcoholmindsetcoach.com/

For as long as I can remember, I felt like I was living in my dad’s shadow...and it made me question everything.In this first solo episode of Move Your Mind, I share how comparison and the need for validation can destroy self-trust, and the mindset shifts that helped me step out of that shadow.You’ll learn how to change your life by stepping out of comparison, separating your worth from timelines, and taking your next best step forward.Timestamps:(00:00) Living in My Dad's Shadow(00:48) The Struggle with Identity and Control(03:56) The Downward Spiral(07:01) Realizations and Recovery(11:45) Steps to Overcome Comparison(16:29) Practical Exercises for Self-Improvement(19:14) Final Thoughts and EncouragementGet the FREE Move Your Mind Masterclass here:go.nickbracks.com/moveyourmindAccess FREE Move Your Mind training here:https://go.moveyourmind.io/trainingConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.com

Do you ever want to approach someone… but freeze because you’re scared you’ll come off creepy, awkward, or like you’re bothering them?In this episode, we break down why this fear is so common and why it doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. Most of the time, your mind is entering into fight-or-flight and turning a simple moment into a threat… which keeps you stuck in your head, overthinking, and doing nothing.We talk about what you’re really afraid of when you fear rejection, how to shift from “trying to get something” to simply creating a genuine moment, and how small actions can rebuild your confidence.This episode will help you change your life by changing the way you handle rejection, so you can approach people with more presence, self-trust, and ease.John Keegan is NYC’s #1 dating coach for men.Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction(00:44) Changing Your Mindset: From Taking to Giving(02:43) The Power of Presence and Listening(06:21) Building Momentum Through Small Actions(08:29) The Importance of Self-Love and Acceptance(18:03) Navigating Modern Dating Challenges(31:39) The Hero's Journey in Relationships(37:56) The Impact of Dating Apps on Relationships(41:09) The Importance of Financial Stability in Dating(41:57) Being a Rock: Emotional Stability in Relationships(47:37) Embracing Authenticity and Self-Love(51:00) Overcoming Life's Challenges and Finding Confidence(57:42) Journey to Becoming a Dating Coach(01:04:55) Final Thoughts and AdviceGet the FREE Move Your Mind Masterclass here:go.nickbracks.com/moveyourmindAccess FREE Move Your Mind training here:https://go.moveyourmind.io/trainingConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with John:https://theawakenedlifestyle.com/

Does healthy eating feel impossible? Do you keep starting with good intentions only to end up overwhelmed, confused, and off track?In this episode, we explore why so many people struggle to eat well in a world full of conflicting advice. When every diet promises answers and information is coming from all directions, it’s easy to feel stuck and frustrated with yourself.This conversation looks at what’s really behind the overwhelm, why willpower isn’t the solution, and how to move forward without waiting for the perfect diet. We also touch on fasting and how to think about it in a way that’s grounded, realistic, and sustainable.If you’ve been caught in cycles of starting over or quietly blaming yourself, this episode offers clarity and a calmer way forward.Ashley Bizzell, is a registered dietitian and certified diabetes care and education specialist with over fifteen years of experience.Timestamps:(00:00) Introduction(01:13) Eliminating Sugars & Processed Foods(03:34) The Science & Benefits of Fasting(07:59) Fasting Mimicking Diet(14:49) Addressing Obesity & Metabolic Health(18:43) Mental Health & Nutrition Connection(24:04) Daily Nutrition & Hydration Tips(32:30) Healthy Snacking Alternatives(35:08) Extreme Diets: Risks and Realities(36:32) Closing Thoughts and ReflectionsGet the FREE Move Your Mind Masterclass here:go.nickbracks.com/moveyourmindAccess FREE Move Your Mind training here:https://go.moveyourmind.io/trainingConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Ashley:https://www.instagram.com/thedeetsondelicious

If you’re in your late 30s or early 40s and feel like you should be further ahead by now, this episode is for you.In this episode, I speak with John Broadbent about why life can feel disorienting in your late 30s and 40s. When the identities that once defined you stop working, certainty fades, and self-criticism creeps in, it’s easy to assume you’ve failed.This conversation explores why that experience is more common than we admit, what’s actually happening beneath the surface, and how to move through this phase without turning on yourself.If you’ve been feeling behind, stuck, or quietly worried you’ve missed your window, this episode offers a perspective that may help you see this stage of life very differently.John Broadbent has spent decades working with men navigating identity, purpose, and major life transitions.Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction(01:21) Understanding the Midlife Crisis(03:26) John's Personal Story of Failure & Growth(05:28) The Importance of Men's Mental Health(09:48) Challenges in Modern Relationships(22:15) The Role of Technology and Society(32:22) Understanding Midlife Transformation(33:56) The Paradox of Clarity & Pressure(35:41) Internal Family Systems & Self-Dialogue(36:24) Parenthood and Selflessness(37:36) The Lens Through Which We See(38:10) Creating a Non-Judgmental Space(39:52) Reflecting on Life's Sliding Doors(43:41) The Cycle of Violence and Leadership(53:27) The Importance of Inner Work(59:39) Final Thoughts & ReflectionsGet the FREE Move Your Mind Masterclass here:go.nickbracks.com/moveyourmindAccess FREE Move Your Mind training here:https://go.moveyourmind.io/trainingConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with John:Website: https://realisepotential.com.au/