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336: Creating Connections and Building Success with Matthew Stafford

Today's Guest: Matthew Stafford


Over the past three decades, Matthew Stafford has been entrepreneurial and successfully building several businesses across various industries, including Concrete, Brick and Mortar Locations, POD, and Software-based ventures. Matthew Stafford, the CEO and managing partner of Build Grow Scale and an equity owner of some in-house Ecommerce brands, has knowledge and expertise, enabling him to mentor thousands of store owners through paid Ecommerce groups and live events. His experience has also allowed him to help hundreds of ecommerce brands scale past the million-dollar mark - with many hitting the $10 million+ mark. To top it off, he's been speaking on stages about ecommerce optimization for the past seven years! In fact, before Covid-19, BGS hosted the largest yearly Ecommerce-focused event in North America - BGS LIVE.


Episode Quotes:


"If you're not passionate about something it's unlikely you're going to be the best at it." -Matthew Stafford


"We've become enthralled in instant gratification." -Amber Fuhriman


"People build businesses thinking the accomplishment will make them feel better inside." -Matthew Stafford

"I discovered the path to the happiness I wanted... was through the work I didn't want to do." -Amber Fuhriman


Find Amber on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amberraefuhriman


Matthew Stafford:


https://www.Buildgrowscale.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewstafforddotcom


If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to amber@amberfuhriman.com.


Connect with other incredible people looking to break out of the corporate mindset by joining the Facebook Success Center: http://bit.ly/2MuWn53


Checkout Amber's Speaker Reel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0


Schedule a connection call with Amber: https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05


If you are interested in connecting with Amber, send an email to amber@amberfuhriman.com.

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