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Money Confidence - 9 Core Beliefs That Are Holding You Back

Season 1, Ep. 31

On this episode Sarah and Georgia talk about 9 common core beliefs around money that may be holding you back.


KEY TAKEAWAYS

We all have our own individual relationship with money. Our own experiences, influences and environments have shaped our perception of money.

Think about your early memories and experiences around money and the beliefs you attach to these.

When we start to think about what we heard about money growing up, we start to realise why we think a certain way about money.

We attach our own perceptions to what we heard when we were growing up.

Being a People Pleaser is a psychological disorder as we feel safe by looking after everyone else's needs first. This is more common for women.

By changing your relationship with money you can change your children's' relationship with money and the future generations ahead of you.


ABOUT THE HOSTS

Sarah is a Chartered Financial Adviser and Certified Financial Coach and Georgia is a Senior Paraplanner. Together, they have over 20 years experience in financial services and are on a mission to educate others about money in a fun and non-jargon way. They will help you master your finances and money mindset so that you feel more confident with money and the decisions you make around money. They talk all things money from investments, pensions and benefits to your mindset around money and steps you can take to improve your relationship with money. They aim to make it fun, educational and are with you every step of the way. Together, you've got this!

The information given in this podcast is for your entertainment and should not be construed as financial advice. No liability can be accepted for any individuals relying on this information without seeking specific advice and guidance. As always, take independent financial advice before making any investment decisions. Our discussions are based on tax and legislation in England which may change.


⭐CONTACT METHOD⭐

E: podcast@thegoodmoneycoach.com

Blog: https://www.sarahblyth.com

W: https://www.thegoodmoneycoach.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/sarah_talks_money/ 

LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarah-blyth-chartered-financial-planner-and-coach/ 

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