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Parenting Teens Unfiltered: Resilient Kids with Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe
Season 9, Ep. 117
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Welcome to the NEW podcast all about parenting teens with Cat & Nat. Each week we are going to go over topics that you need to know and bring an expert to break down an important topic. New episodes every Monday, go subscribe wherever you listen to your podcasts.
We have the most amazing interview for you this week with the totally engaging Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe. She is a multi-award-winning education and psychology instructor and resiliency expert. What sets Dr. Robyne apart is how she learned resilience from the ground up, as a person who has experienced significant obstacles yet forged her come back. We discuss what exactly is resiliency, when you can experience resiliency, and how to raise kids that are resilient. To learn more about Robyne head over to her website https://drrobyne.ca/, be sure to check out her book: Calm Within The Storm: A Pathway to Everyday Resiliency and follow her @dr_robynehd.
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