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Living The Confidence Code with Claire Shipman and JillEllyn Riley
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Welcome to another Monday podcast! In this episode we interviewed Claire Shipman and JillEllyn Riley, two of the three authors of the newly published book, Living the Confidence Code. The authors tell us how it is their mission to show girls, not just tell them, what it looks like when girls struggle to gain confidence. We also tackle how and why issues around confidence can be very different for boys and how parents can identify confidence issues vs self-esteem issues. We offer up tips for parents to help their kids fill up their 'confidence bank' so they know they can handle the hard things life can throw at them. For more on the authors and to find Living the Confidence Code, Living the Confidence Code for Girls and The Confidence Code visit https://www.confidencecodegirls.com/ or @confidencecodegirls. For the full episode go to https://thecommonparent.com. Enjoy
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