Share

cover art for Parenting Teens Unfiltered: BookTok & Unhealthy Masculinity

Cat & Nat Unfiltered

Parenting Teens Unfiltered: BookTok & Unhealthy Masculinity

Season 9, Ep. 51

Welcome to the NEW podcast all about parenting teens with Cat & Nat. Each week we are going to go over topics that you need to know and bring an expert to break down an important topic. New episodes every Monday, go subscribe wherever you listen to your podcasts.


It's no secret that there's a history of sexism, misogyny and hypermasculinity in sport, particularly in elite men's hockey. In elite sport, masculinity is often defined by glorifying toughness, promoting aggression, encouraging 'bro culture', and upholding the locker room 'code'. But what does this mean for parents raising kids who want to take part in sports like hockey? We put our kids in sports so they can make new friends, get active, and learn about sportsmanship - certainly not to fall into a culture of toxicity and misogyny. Dr. Teresa Anne Fowler, PhD in Gender and Sexuality Studies, breaks down her research into the cultural reproduction of masculinity and how parents can work to make change and protect their kids from unhealthy masculinity in sports. For more on Dr. Teresa find her at https://profiles.ucalgary.ca/teresa-fowler.


Tune in every Monday for a brand new episode!


This podcast is presented by The Common Parent. The all-in-one parenting resource you need to for your teens & tweens. We've uncovered every parenting issue, so you don't have too.


Join now for only $6.99 / month & get access to our monthly fireside chats where you can ask us anything! www.thecommonparent.com


Follow @thecommonparent on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonparent/


Join 45,000 parents reading The Cap every week; covering the latest stories in parenting news. https://thecap.beehiiv.com/

More episodes

View all episodes

  • 82. We Are Talking Weight Loss

    32:41
    When did one person's weight loss become everyone's business? It's putting women in a position where they have to defend themselves. It's not fair. Shouldn't we be saying to Oprah or Kelly Clarkson (or any woman, for that matter) congratulations? Not "What did you do?" or implying that they sold out by taking a drug that is available on the market. We have to take responsibility for how we behave on this topic because our younger generation is watching. We need to work on making it better for them.Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial!
  • 81. Parenting Teens Unfiltered: The Fear of Teenagehood & Kirsten Cobabe

    50:08
    Welcome to the NEW podcast all about parenting teens with Cat & Nat. Each week we are going to go over topics that you need to know and bring an expert to break down an important topic. New episodes every Monday, go subscribe wherever you listen to your podcasts.Tune in every Monday for a brand new episode!Adolescence is NOT easy. Kids are changing dramatically, gaining autonomy, taking risks and experiencing behavioral and hormonal shifts. These big changes can be hard for everyone in the house, especially parents! We brought back Kirsten Cobabe, former therapist turned coach, teen/parent whisperer and artist specializing in supporting families navigate the waves of adolescence to help answers some of our many questions. For the past 25 years, she has guided parents in learning how to listen to, and talk with, their teens. We have a long history of hanging on Kirsten’s every word. For more on Kirsten follow her @kirstencobabe. This podcast is presented by The Common Parent. The all-in-one parenting resource you need for your teens & tweens. We've uncovered every parenting issue, so you don't have too.Join now for only $9.99 / month & get access to our monthly fireside chats where you can ask us anything! www.thecommonparent.comFollow @thecommonparent on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonparent/Join 45,000 parents reading The Cap every week; covering the latest stories in parenting news. https://thecap.beehiiv.com/
  • 80. The First Time Nat Had S*x

    34:31
    Some of us don't remember our first time in great detail (Cat) while some of us can recount it in LOTS of detail (Nat) what their first time was like. This week Nat shares it all with us! We also talk about what might happen if she were to run into her "first" today. Like, would he want to give it another go or no??Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial!
  • 79. Unconsciously Coupled with Erinn & Oliver Hudson - Part 2

    40:37
    In this repeat episode we are bringing you part two of our chat with Oliver and Erinn Hudson of Unconsciously Coupled. This episode was super real and honest! They shared the story of Oliver's infidelity during their engagement, what that conversation looked like and the scars it left behind. With an amazing therapist and a lot of support, hear what happened the first time they got back together in the bedroom! And check out @unconsciouslycoupled to see why we love how real and honest these two are! Follow @ehud26 and @theoliverhudson for your daily dose of singing and humour!Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial!
  • 78. The Great Shift

    27:53
    We are starting to feel the shift, actually living it in real time. Schools are having to roll out wellness programs for high school students because of the pressure they are putting on themselves. Everyone is trying to understand where it's coming from. Where did it start? How did we get here? We are having to undo it all. Academics are going to change. The whole culture will change.Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial!
  • 77. Parenting Teens Unfiltered: The State of Motherhood & Finding Yourself with Roxanne Francis

    34:48
    Welcome to the NEW podcast all about parenting teens with Cat & Nat. Each week we are going to go over topics that you need to know and bring an expert to break down an important topic. New episodes every Monday, go subscribe wherever you listen to your podcasts.There was a time when our children literally needed us to survive. As they grow into their teen years they no longer need us in the same way, leaving us to feel like we are out of a job. How do we get back from losing ourselves in motherhood? Roxanne Francis is an award-winning Registered Social Worker, psychotherapist and CEO of Francis Psychotherapy & Consulting Services who helps us dive into this exact topic. She is a keynote speaker, leadership coach and corporate consultant who addresses topics related to women’s issues, race & equity, mental health, parenting, and wellness at work. Follow @francispsychotherapy and check out https://www.francispsychotherapy.com/Tune in every Monday for a brand new episode!This podcast is presented by The Common Parent. The all-in-one parenting resource you need for your teens & tweens. We've uncovered every parenting issue, so you don't have too.Join now for only $9.99 / month & get access to our monthly fireside chats where you can ask us anything! www.thecommonparent.comFollow @thecommonparent on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecommonparent/Join 45,000 parents reading The Cap every week; covering the latest stories in parenting news. https://thecap.beehiiv.com/
  • 76. Bedroom 'Icks'

    31:10
    We asked for your bedroom 'icks.' These are really funny and sometimes, really relatable! How many of you tell your partner what your bedroom 'icks' are? Or do you just roll with it? You guys never cease to amaze us. Keep sending us your 'icks.' And remember, when in doubt, breathe through your mouth.Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial!
  • 75. Unconsciously Coupled with Erinn and Oliver Hudson

    32:47
    We love these two so much we had to bring this episode back! We chatted with Erinn and Oliver Hudson of Unconsciously Coupled about so many things including breaking intergenerational trauma, past relationships, sex, infidelity (and how to move beyond it) and so much more that we had to make it a two part series. Erinn and Oliver have been unconsciously coupled for over twenty years and have an amazing podcast that takes an honest and unfiltered look into their relationship. Check out @unconsciouslycoupled and see why we love how real and honest these two are! And for your daily laugh follow @theoliverhudson and @ehud26.Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial!
  • 74. Releasing Relationships

    30:17
    Nat doesn't shock Cat very often, but she left us with a real zinger last week! In part two this week, we are talking about having someone in your life who isn't bringing you joy and how releasing them can be really hard. Nat released someone from her life and feels lucky that it isn't something she has to deal with anymore. There's nothing there anymore, and that's just fine.Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial!