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LIFE AFTER DIVORCE: Honest Conversations for Women Podcast

Mastering Your Finances Post-Divorce with Manisha Bhudia

Ep. 11

In this episode of the Women on Transition Podcast, hosts Fiona May and Sandra Lee are joined by financial expert Manisha Buddha to discuss crucial strategies for budgeting and cash flow management post-divorce. Manisha, a qualified financial planner and accountant with over 26 years in the finance industry, shares her insights on how to navigate financial settlements, managing expenses, and the importance of planning not just for the present but for the future. With personal experience in divorce, Manisha offers practical advice on how to rebuild financially, set realistic savings goals, and the significance of being emotionally and financially aware. Tune in to learn more about creating a sustainable financial plan and achieving long-term financial health.

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