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#177 The Cost of Inaction ā€“ Why Waiting is the Most Expensive Decision Youā€™ll Ever Make

Season 1, Ep. 177
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Welcome to another episode of Let's Talk Money and More, where today we confront a topic silently impacting our financial well-being: the cost of inaction.


Hosted by Lesley Thomas, this episode dives into how putting off financial decisions, hesitating to invest in ourselves, or avoiding uncomfortable money conversations can quietly drain our bank balances. Lesley explores why we procrastinate on money matters, unpacks the hidden impacts of delaying action, and addresses how fear often plays a role in our hesitation. Most importantly, she provides practical steps to help break free from this cycle.


If you've ever told yourself you'll "do it later," this episode is your call to take action now and transform your financial future. Join us as we challenge the mindset of waiting and empower you to make proactive decisions today.


Key Takeaways:


  • Fear and Avoidance Are Costly: Avoiding financial decisions due to fear or discomfort doesn't save us trouble; it compounds it. Addressing money matters today, even imperfectly, is better than avoiding them altogether.
  • Small Actions Lead to Big Results: Immediate action, no matter how small, can create financial momentum and opportunities for growth. It's a reminder that the perfect moment to start doesn't exist; the best time to take control is now.
  • The Illusion of Time: We often deceive ourselves into thinking we have more time to make financial decisions. But delays only reduce our potential long-term benefits, like missing out on compound interest.


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