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From Orphanage to Overflow: How Shabana Knight Turned Gratitude Into a Wellness Superpower

Ep. 228

Tune in to episode 228 of Joy Found Here, where wellness coach Shabana Knight shares her extraordinary journey from an Indian orphanage to a life built on gratitude, health, and self-discovery. Adopted and raised in the U.S., Shabana returned decades later to the orphanage where her story began, an experience that deepened her sense of identity and sparked a greater appreciation for the life she has built with her family.


That same openness has guided her career. What began with encouraging a coworker to lose baby weight revealed her natural gift for motivation, which grew into personal training, wellness coaching, and a holistic practice blending fitness, hormone balance, homeopathic remedies, and decluttering. Her approach emphasizes that true wellness goes beyond the body—it’s about aligning mind, body, and environment so you can thrive from a place of overflow rather than depletion.

In this episode, Shabana reflects on how gratitude, community, and intentional self-care can transform not just health but entire lives. From her human design discoveries to embracing both a given and chosen birthday, she shows why putting yourself first isn’t selfish but essential. Her message is clear: wellness isn’t perfection—it’s alignment, abundance, and the daily choice to live with intention.


In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • How Shabana’s life began in an Indian orphanage before adoption in the U.S. (2:54)
  • Her return to India and the powerful experience of visiting her orphanage (4:18)
  • The gratitude shifts she brought home after reconnecting with her roots (7:19)
  • How helping a coworker lose baby weight launched her into fitness coaching (8:29)
  • Why personal training and decluttering “found her” as part of her wellness path (10:30)
  • The role of intuition and how she makes things happen—from drops to coaching (13:30)
  • Living from overflow instead of depletion and why it changes everything (16:39)
  • The surprising story of choosing a second birthday through human design (17:55)
  • How homeopathic drops transformed her hormones, sleep, and mood (24:37)
  • Simple daily rituals that keep her grounded, grateful, and able to give (27:29)


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