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Define Your Own Version Of Success with Amanda Herr

Ep. 97

Is the life you created for yourself aligned with your values? Are you giving your children the life you pictured you would? If your inner voice tells you you are not done yet, then you aren't. 


In this episode, I'm joined by the extraordinary Amanda Herr. She is a Career and Leadership Expert and Coach, passionate about helping mid-career women discover and achieve their own version of success. After a tremendously successful career in corporate America, becoming VP of sales and marketing at CNN and President at Digital Desk, Amanda experienced a mindset change, redefined her version of success, pivoted, and became a coach.  


Throughout this episode, Amanda talks about the infinite ways of defining success, how each woman can (and should) create their own version of it, and what they need to change to achieve it. We learn about her transition from corporate to entrepreneurship (while juggling it with her mom's life), her passion for helping other women achieve their dreams, and the liberating power of the magical two-letter word: NO. 


In addition, we explore Amanda's NEXT framework, how to apply it to deal with psychological stress, increase our emotional intelligence, and so much more. 


Listen to Episode 97 of the Joy Found Here podcast to hear about how busy and overwhelmed women can quickly turn into happy women.


In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • Coaching is for everyone (3:16)
  • About Amanda's decision to raise her children on her own (7:35)
  • The different ways of looking at "having a job" (11:03)
  • The power of the magical two letters word: NO (16:21)
  • How happy women define success (22:15)
  • Use the NEXT framework and boost your emotional intelligence (24:34)
  • How Amanda's experience in corporate America prepared her for this stage of her life (33:54)


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