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How to Date is a show about to master the messy, complex, and downright bizarre world of dating, when you really didn't think you'd be back here again. Your hosts Dr Amantha Imber and Monique Robin speak to psychologists, dating coaches, prof...
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Why you need to stop looking for a spark on first dates
32:03What are the most important but underrated characteristics we should be looking for in a partner? And what qualities do we place too much emphasis on, that don't actually predict relationship satisfaction? How can we use the apps in a more productive way? We explore these questions and more with Logan Ury. Logan is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of How To Not Die Alone. Previously, Logan was the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge and she also ran Google’s behavioural science team—the Irrational Lab.Find our more at:https://www.loganury.com/Get Logan's book: https://www.loganury.com/bookFollow Logan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loganury/?hl=enFollow Logan on Twitter: https://twitter.com/loganuryReach out to Amantha and Monique at hi@howtodate.fmFollow us on Instagram.
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Tip of the week: The dating mindset you NEED to adopt now
04:26Amantha and Monique discuss the dating mindset that will help you have the most success during the first few dates with someone.Reach out to Amantha and Monique at hi@howtodate.fmFollow us on Instagram.
Should you use a matchmaking agency?
29:25What sort of people benefit most from a matchmaking agency? What are the most important qualities we should be looking for in a mate? How can we meet people outside of the apps? We explore these questions and more with Trudy Gilbert. Trudy is the Founder of Elite Introductions, where she has been matchmaking Australians for over 15 years. She is known within the media as Australia’s Millionaire Matchmaker and is the author of 49 Secrets of an Elite Matchmaker.Find our more at:https://www.eliteintroductions.com.au/Trudy Gilbert on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/trudy.gilbert.18Elite Introductions on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eliteintroductionsinternationalTrudy Gilbert on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elite_introductions_/?hl=enReach out to Amantha and Monique at hi@howtodate.fmFollow us on Instagram.
Tip of the week: What you need to STOP looking for in potential matches
06:19Amantha and Monique discuss what you need to STOP looking for in your search for a mate.Reach out to Amantha and Monique at hi@howtodate.fmFollow us on Instagram.
The ideal first date outfit
29:51How can we avoid that "I don't know what to wear" feeling before a first date? What are wardrobe hacks we can use to look and feel great? How can we spend "smarter" when we go shopping for clothes? What are the best ways to spruce up our look without spending lots of money? We explore these questions and more with Melissa Lewis. Melissa is a stylist and the Founder and CEO of The Ascension Group, where she helps women in the corporate world present themselves more confidently and authentically.Get in touch with Melissa Lewis.Reach out to Amantha and Monique at hi@howtodate.fmFollow us on Instagram.
Tip of the week: Are you an anxious or avoidant type?
08:09Amantha and Monique discuss the most important dating theory you need to know about - Attachment Theory - and how to work out your attachment style.Reach out to Amantha and Monique at hi@howtodate.fmFollow us on Instagram.
4. The three most common types of dating scams
51:38What are the most common dating scams that you need to watch out for? How can we get better at spotting fake profiles? What are the psychological principles that scammers take advantage of? We explore these questions and more with Aunshul Rege. Aunshel is an Associate Professor with the Department of Criminal Justice at Temple University, USA. She has spent the last ten years researching cybersecurity and cyberattacks.Reach out to Aunshel at:rege@temple.eduReach out to Amantha and Monique at hi@howtodate.fmFollow us on Instagram.