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238. The alcohol helped me to fit in and feel accepted with 19Twenty's Kane Dennelly

In this episode, I catch up with Kane Dennelly, the frontman and guitarist of the dynamic band 19Twenty. Known for his energetic stage presence and wild antics, Kane has transformed from the "life of the party" to embracing his inner "quiet guy." Join us as we delve into his profound journey of self-discovery and sobriety.

Kane opens up about his transition from wild antics on stage, including drinking from bras, to finding peace in sobriety. We explore how a toxic relationship masked his feelings of not fitting in and led to excessive alcohol use. Kane candidly shares the incredible impact of two years of sobriety on his life, career, and personal relationships, providing a heartfelt look into his path of transformation.

We also discuss how Kane's journey has influenced the music and dynamics within 19Twenty, highlighting the positive changes that have come from his decision to become sober. Kane reflects on the importance of embracing one's true self and the strength found in quiet introspection, offering valuable insights for anyone struggling with similar issues.

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Music for Podcast intro and outro written by Danni Carr performed by Mr Cassidy



If you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol. 



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