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Suzi Ruffell: The Gratitude List

Ep. 38

In this week’s bonus episode, comedian, writer and podcaster Suzi Ruffell shares what she is grateful for. Suzi’s into gratitude in a big way, and overnight oats, her wife and daughter and the beach are just some of the things mentioned on her list. 


Head to the main episode to hear about Suzi’s relationship with anxiety, navigating self-acceptance and her experience of coming out. 


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