How Are We 40?

If you’ve ever said “I have nothing to wear” while standing in front of a very full closet, this one’s for you. This week, Tay + Whit are joined by stylist Caleigh O’Donnell, who helps clients identify their patterns, preferences, and core motivations—rather than just buying more clothes. Drawing on her background in anthropology, consumer insights, and design strategy, Caleigh treats getting dressed as a human-behavior problem, not a fashion one. Plus: why most style rules don’t work, how patterns show up in our closets, and why getting dressed is more about self-knowledge than shopping.

This week, Tay + Whit crack open the Fall/Winter Fail Files—and take a scenic tour through all the ways they’ve been seasonally victimized. They’re revisiting their peak pick-me eras (complete with the questionable hair choices), reliving the moment Whit’s Halloween décor literally blew to shreds, and unpacking the mystery of the faux tree that showed up at Tay’s Brooklyn apartment… uninvited, unpurchased, and inexplicably on her doorstep.It’s unfiltered, unhinged, and deeply on-brand. Welcome to the holiday meltdown.

This week, Tay + Whit sit down with influencer Jackie Giardina to talk fashion fearlessness— from ignoring every “dress for your body type” rule we were fed in the 2000s to embracing full-tilt holiday sparkle. Consider this your permission slip to wear the thing, try the trend, and stop asking if it’s “flattering.”

It’s the Thanksgiving episode! 🦃🌽💫 And Tay + Whit are talking all things gobble-gobble. From the unhinged fever dream that is the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade to the culinary phenomenon known as Bread Sauce. Also on the docket: mystery smells in Whit’s house and a deep dive discussion on why men read like they’re preparing to lead Union troops at dawn.

Mood swings? Random anxiety? Waking up in sweat-soaked sheets? Same. Cool-cool-cool. In this episode, we talk to Lauren A. Tetenbaum, LCSW JD PMH-C — author of Millennial Menopause — about hormonal changes, anxiety, identity shifts, and all the things women were never told about perimenopause and menopause. If your body has been acting weird lately… same, girl. Let’s figure it out together.

This week, we are officially Cool Moms™ (though one of us is still childless and deeply committed to sleeping in). Whit recaps her chaotic murder mystery party that went totally off-script, Tay spirals over her latest true crime doc obsession, and we end with Tay’s controversial, highly scientific taste-test of Whit’s favorite candy: the Take 5. Spoiler: feelings were hurt.

It’s our Halloween episode and chaos is in the air: a possible intruder at Whitney’s house, Tay’s run-in with a black cat, and a deep dive into our college slutty costume era. Happy Halloween, everyone. 👻🎃🕸️

This week, we’re talking (and fan-girling) with legendary costume designer Renée Ehrlich Kalfus—the genius behind Blake Lively’s jaw-dropping looks in A Simple Favor, the vintage perfection of Hidden Figures, and basically half the movies that shaped our style. She tells us how costumes build characters, what it’s really like to dress Hollywood royalty, and which looks she still can’t get out of her head.