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Replace Anxiety With Trust: Feel Freedom in Your Love Life
This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha shares her deeply personal journey of moving from fear to freedom in love. Once caught in cycles of anxiety, control, and the fear of abandonment, she reveals how healing her nervous system and facing her hidden patterns opened the door to peace, connection, and trust. đż
Through honest storytelling and soulful guidance, Sasha explores why we cling to chaos, how fear quietly tries to protect us, and what it really takes to feel safe in love again. She also gives a first look at her new mini course, Fear to Freedomâa two-week journey to regulate your emotions, calm your body, and rebuild your sense of self in relationships.Â
By the end of this episode, youâll see that healing isnât about fixing your fearsâitâs about finding freedom through them, and learning to return to love with a steadier heart and a calmer mind. đ
Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:
- What would you do today if this was the last day you knew that you are alive?
- What is that thing that you will love to do every day and you're not doing right now?
- If you're struggling with exercise, what is the type of exercise that you could do today?
In this episode, youâll discover:
- Awareness is the first step to freedom.Â
- Fear is a signal, not an enemy.Â
- You canât think through triggersâyou have to feel through them.Â
- Freedom begins with self-soothing.Â
- A calm body makes love feel safe.
- Reconnection starts within.Â
- Peace in love comes from trust, not control.
đWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv
đGet Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation Tool
Learn more about Sasha Quince:
For more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship
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85. Are Your Relationship Patterns Written in the Stars?
51:53||Ep. 85Your birth chart holds clues about your emotional patterns, relationship dynamics, and the lessons youâre here to heal. In this episode, we dive into how Vedic astrology can guide your growth, soften your fears, and support healthier love.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha welcomes brand strategist and Vedic astrology practitioner Prachi Tiwary for a deeply illuminating conversation about how the stars can guide us home to ourselvesâand transform the way we show up in our relationships. â¨From growing up in India where astrology is a living tradition to discovering her own path through trauma, ancestral healing, and self-acceptance, Prachi shares how understanding your birth chart can unlock profound self-awareness and compassion. Together, she and Sasha explore how our planets reveal our patterns, our wounds, and our purposeâand how that wisdom ripples into every relationship we touch.By the end of this episode, youâll see that astrology isnât about predictionâitâs about permission. Permission to understand yourself deeply, to release judgment, and to honor the karmic connections that shape your healing journey. đIn this episode, youâll discover:How your birth chart reflects both your self-love and how you show up in intimate relationshipsWhy healing always starts withinâand how that inner shift transforms your external relationshipsThe power of ancestral lineage and karmic connections in shaping who you are and who you loveHow understanding your moon can unlock emotional blocks and attachment patternsWhy acceptanceâof yourself and othersâis the greatest form of loveđJoin Sashaâs mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to FreedomđWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0QvvvđGet Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Prachi Tiwary: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/prachitiwary Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship
84. How to love yourself first and stop placing othersâ needs ahead of yours.
24:10||Ep. 84Lets dive into the question I get asked a lot "How do I love myself better?" This is something we learn not something we know, our wounds lead us to pull away form us to be loved by others and its totally backwards. Start to flip the script and honor your needs, love you first and watch your relationships thrive and attract healthy love back at you.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha talks about the challenge of putting yourself first, even when life feels busy and everyone elseâs needs come first. She shares how over-giving and self-neglect are learned patterns, how small daily signs show youâre not meeting your own needs, and why self-love is the foundation for all healthy relationships. đżSasha walks you through practical ways to love yourselfâfrom setting boundaries and saying no, to noticing the little ways you show up for yourself each day. She also guides you through her âSoulful Trioâ reflection questions, helping you reconnect with your needs and stop outsourcing love to others. đBy the end of this episode, youâll see that loving yourself isnât selfishâitâs the key to feeling whole, easing guilt, and showing up in relationships with presence, calm, and joy. â¨Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:Where in your life are you waiting for someone else to make you feel good about yourself?What is one small way I can actually make myself feel good about myself today?What might change in your relationships if you met more of your own needs first versus others?In this episode, youâll discover:Self-love comes firstârelationships flow easier when your cup is full.Small acts of care matterânotice and meet your needs daily.Over-giving often hides fearâabandonment, rejection, or feeling ânot enough.âBoundaries protect your energy, time, and peace.Guilt is part of unlearningâfeel it, donât fight it.đJoin Sashaâs mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to FreedomđWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0QvvvđGet Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship
83. No Gatekeeping: My AâZ Method to Move Through Triggers Without Blowing Up or Shutting Down
36:06||Ep. 83This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha guides you through the vulnerable process of moving from an emotional trigger back into grounded connection. After experiencing her own moment of overwhelm, she explains what a trigger truly is, why it hits so hard, and how a compassionate pause can bring you back to yourself. â¨Through gentle, practical guidance, Sasha walks you step-by-step through what to do when your body is activatedâhow to calm your system, feel whatâs coming up, meet your needs, and return to your partner with steadiness instead of urgency. She also shares her simple AâZ trigger process, offering a supportive roadmap for navigating conflict with more safety and self-awareness. By the end of this episode, youâll see that healing your triggers isnât about pushing them awayâitâs about moving through them with presence, softness, and a regulated nervous system, so you can reconnect with a calmer mind and a more open heart. đSoulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What is your immediate reaction when youâre triggered?What is one feeling that repeatedly comes up that youâve been dismissing?Where can you take accountability of yourself?In this episode, youâll discover:Triggers are invitations to understand yourself more deeply.A pause is powerfulâitâs where clarity begins.Your body speaks first; your mind catches up later.Self-regulation is the bridge back to safety.Feeling your emotions is how they move, not how they break you.Repair lands best when you return with steadiness.Love grows when you meet yourself before trying to reconnect.đJoin Sashaâs mini-training to transform anxiety into trust and reconnect with your partner here â Fear to FreedomđWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0QvvvđGet Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship
81. Lessons from a Cancer Survivor - Healing the Relationship with Self
59:22||Ep. 81This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha sits down with integrative nutritionist and yoga teacher Cecilia Ayoub to share her powerful story of surviving breast cancerâand how it awakened a deeper connection to her body, spirit, and purpose. đżÂ From losing her health and sense of identity to rediscovering self-love through mindfulness and forgiveness, Cecilia opens up about what it truly means to heal on every level. Together, she and Sasha explore how slowing down, feeling your emotions, and releasing old versions of yourself can become the most profound medicine of all. By the end of this episode, youâll see that healing isnât about going back to who you wereâitâs about returning home to yourself, stronger, softer, and more whole than ever before. đSoulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What would you do today if this was the last day you knew that you are alive?What is that thing that you will love to do every day and you're not doing right now?If you're struggling with exercise, what is the type of exercise that you could do today?In this episode, youâll discover:Healing begins when you stop asking âWhy me?â and start asking âWhat is this teaching me?â Feeling your emotions is strength, not weakness. Forgiveness is how you set yourself free. Your body holds the wisdom your mind canât quiet. Healing isnât about who you wereâitâs about who youâre becoming.đWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0QvvvđGet Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Cecilia Ayoub: Website: https://www.manifesthealthbyceci.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/manifesthealth/ Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship
80. What if your whole LIFE is a giant mirror and you are in control of your reality (this will blow your mind)!
36:49||Ep. 80This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha explores one of the most life-changing universal lawsâthe Law of Reflectionâand how it shapes every relationship we have. â¨From the partner who doesnât listen, to the friend who crosses your boundaries, Sasha reveals how these experiences are mirrors showing us what still needs healing within. Youâll learn how to move from âWhy is this happening to me?â to âWhat is this teaching me?â, and how to turn frustration, chaos, or rejection into powerful self-awareness.By the end, youâll see that your outer world isnât working against youâitâs working for you, guiding you toward inner calm, deeper connection, and emotional freedom. đSoulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What situation in my life feels most frustrating right now? What might it be reflecting about me? Where am I ignoring my own needs hoping someone else will finally meet them?Could this challenge be an invitation to love myself more deeply, to notice something? If it is, what does that look like for me?In this episode, youâll discover:Your outer world mirrors your inner state.Triggers are invitations to heal, not punishments.Self-respect sets the tone for how others treat you.Inner calm creates outer peace.Growth begins when you ask, âWhat is this showing me?âđWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0QvvvđGet Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship
79. The Millennial Cycle Breakers - This One If For You!
43:51||Ep. 79You know you're a cycle breaker if you see something in your family system that is unhealthy and you want to shift that dynamic in your own life. This episode talks to the millennials who I believe are the first CONSCIOUS generation that is leading the way to new waves of healing, loving ourselves and showing up in the world as their true self. So lets dig into the 3 biggest healing practices that US millennials were never taught and are learning now.This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha dives into three powerful healing practices millennials are masteringâand how theyâre helping us break the emotional cycles we inherited. đżÂ From learning to regulate our emotions to embracing conflict as a doorway to deeper connection, Sasha unpacks how this generation is shifting from survival mode to self-awareness. Youâll hear how to stop avoiding your feelings, stay calm in hard conversations, and repair relationships with compassion and accountability. By the end, youâll see that emotional safety doesnât come from a perfect partner or a conflict-free homeâit starts within you. đIn this episode, youâll discover:Emotional regulation is the foundation of self-trust and inner safety. Conflict isnât dangerousâitâs a doorway to deeper connection. Repair and ownership are what make relationships last. Healing your emotions teaches your children how to do the same. You donât need to be fully healed to loveâyou heal through loving.đWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvvđ Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship â an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship
78. The 2 biggest mistakes we make with our partners (you'll never guess these)!
37:54||Ep. 78This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha talks about two big mistakes many women make in loveâand how they quietly leave us feeling unseen and disconnected. đ From relying on our partners for emotional safety to trying to âfixâ them, she unpacks how these patterns come from generations of self-abandonmentâand what it looks like to start meeting your own needs for acknowledgment, connection, pleasure, and sovereignty. Youâll hear how to stop expecting your partner to fill your empty cup, inspire change without control, and replace resentment with compassion. By the end, youâll see that love deepens not by changing your partner, but by coming home to the version of you that already feels whole. â¨Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What is one emotional need you can meet today, this weekend, this week?How are you going to meet that need?What is one thing you can accept about a partner or loved one today?In this episode, youâll discover:Emotional safety starts with you, not your partner.Love patterns often stem from ancestral and childhood wounds.You canât fix your partnerâchange begins within.Compassion grows when you embrace your partnerâs humanity.Love deepens when you release control and trust your healing.đWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvvđ Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship â an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship
77. The Power of your mind to heal and create the version of who you want to be
35:12||Ep. 77The Power of your mind to heal and create the version of who you want to be Description: Reflecting on who I was and how my healing journey released lifetime patterns such as not enough time, not enough money, not enough of you. Change your mind, dissolve the beliefs limiting you and causing you anxiety and watch your life expands into a new version of yourself that you are amazed by.Show Notes:This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha dives into the hidden thoughts that quietly shape our livesâthe ones that whisper âIâm not enough,â âI donât have time,â or âlove never works out for me.â đ What starts as a passing thought often reveals a deeper woundâan old belief our subconscious still clings to for safety. Through her own journey of shifting these patterns, Sasha shows how to spot the stories that hold you back and gently rewire them into truth. With warmth and real-life examples, she shares how to âladder upâ your thoughts, use small proofs to rebuild self-trust, and retrain your mind toward calm and possibility. This isnât about pretending to be positiveâitâs about learning to believe something new, one step at a time. By the end of this episode, youâll see that healing doesnât begin with fixing yourselfâit begins with changing what you choose to believe about who you already are. â¨đWant to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvvđ Uncover your limiting love beliefs training and feel safe in love - sign up here Uncover your limiting love beliefs & rewire mini training Heal You Heal Your Relationship â an 11 week inner work course to heal you and your relationships. Dive into the self for healthy lasting love, whether you're in a relationship and seeking your life partner. The step by step healing and growth path to understand yourself, overcome your fears, reprogram your subconscious mind, up-level your love beliefs and finally feel peace, joy and balance in your love life. Through teachings, and tools that got Sasha to where she is today in her relationship and has helped 100s of her clients get there too. Check it out for a love that lasts: http://sasha-quince.mykajabi.com/HealYouHealYourRelationships Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to sashaquincementoring@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship