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The life of a Third Culture Kid therapist

96 - Other People's Stories of Us

How comfortable are we when other people's stories of us don't align with how we want to be perceived? In my experience, it's a common human experience to feel the need to have some control over the story of who we are. For many TCKs, it's aligned to our very social survival...

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    16:07
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    23:34
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