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Matrescence - Becoming a Mother, Layla Nua Nua

Season 4, Ep. 8


Becoming a mother is not just about the birth of a baby. It is also about the rebirth of you. Your Matrescence.

A radical identity shift that is so powerful that it can also knock us off balance if we don't understand what’s happening within us. 

From experiencing her own transformation after 3 births, fertility challenges, an ectopic pregnancy, early onset of labour and months of bed rest to get to due date, Layla began to process it all.

Here with host Sinead O'Moore Layla shares the impact of her first 2 births in Germany with incredible postpartum support followed by a third here in Ireland with little to no support led her to study what happens to us in postpartum and how we’ve forgotten to nurture and support women after birth through genuine rest, healing, talking, nourishing and restoring. 

And nuanua was born, where Layla can now be that support for women. 

Layla now provides therapies and guiding supports to help women prepare for postpartum, to understand whats ahead, to nurture them through this transition with the ambition to feel happy again in their own skin.

Find out more about nuanua here

Want to know more? Watch Sinead and Layla's IGTV on Postnatal Depletion here.

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