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The Legacy We Leave

Season 3, Ep. 25

Not everything handed down from one generation to the next is worth keeping. Some families pass down strong faith. Others pass down silence, patterns, or pain that echoes for years.


Most of us inherit a mixture of both.


In this episode, Rachel reflects on a Father's Day sermon from Deuteronomy 6 and what it means to receive a complicated story and still choose a different direction. Using the image of an old saddle hanging in her shed, she explores how grace goes ahead of us, how God starts with us exactly where we are, and why the first act of a new legacy isn't speaking.


It's surrender.


Whether you come from a strong foundation of faith or you're the first in your family to turn toward God, this conversation is for you.


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