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Episode 8 How to avoid ending up in the WRONG relationship

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Would you like more support with dating and becoming more confident?

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Dr. Mari Kovanen, a registered psychologist and relationship therapist, offers men advice on dating confidently to avoid ending up in the wrong relationship. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, understanding personal values, and the process of 'conscious dating' to make better relationship choices. Kovanen suggests creating a list of desired qualities in a partner, practicing slow dating to better assess compatibility, and having the courage to end things early if the relationship isn't right. She also encourages viewers to download her free dating confidence guide and engage with the channel for more self-development content.


01:12 Understanding What Makes a Relationship Wrong

01:49 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Avoiding Wrong Relationships

04:49 Creating Your Ideal Partner Checklist

07:14 The Power of Slow Dating and Making Informed Choices

08:50 Navigating Breakups and Moving Forward

10:23 Recap and Final Thoughts


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