Challenges That Change Us

Do you love High performance then check out our 3 day summit in October this year, only 30 places: https://events.highperformanceleadershipsummit.com.au/october-summit-2024Trigger warning: sexual assault, hate crime, attempted murderIn this episode we will be discussing the experience of David Keck, a man in the U.S. who was brutally attacked 9 years ago and left for dead, simply because he was gay. The experience of a hate crime is something not all of us will ever truly understand but the lessons David has to share can help us all. Believe me when I say that David’s story will shock and then also inspire you. Now David uses his experience to help others. As a professional Life Coach, David draws on his experience working with clients who have faced Borderline Personality Disorder, survivors of hate crimes, survivors of domestic violence, and PTSD. He is also one part of the “The Process Of Healing Podcast” (Formerly Surviving Podcast) where they to shed light on the struggles faced during and after traumatic experiences by sharing interviews with survivors, experts and answering listener questions.In this episode he shares:His personal experience being gay as a young man and how it helped himThe early stages of his night before the attackWhat is believed to have happened as part of the attackThe aftermath of the attackThe harsh journey after he was released from hospitalThe prejudice that happened with the police forceThe shockingly short amount of time his attacker spent in prisonThe dark space he was in after the attackWhat the early stages of his road to recovery looked likeThe pivotal moment that helped with his recoveryHow he took control of his life againKey Quotes"I had someone who was on trial, telling my mother what I looked like taking my last breath, describing my lips turning blue, saying that I looked like a fish out of water."“The only revenge I thought that I could get was to live.”“He spent about 2 hours sexually assaulting and beating me…and called the mother of his children and confessed to murder.”More about DavidThe podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-process-of-healing/id1572182113Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/processofhealing_pod/You can get involved with the podcast onlineOn facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auFor her other business you can find it through the websites:www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au

Do you love High performance then check out our 3 day summit in October this year, only 30 places: https://events.highperformanceleadershipsummit.com.au/october-summit-2024Trigger warning,: domestic violenceWe all know I am obsessed with discussing resilience on this podcast and the many ways it can show up.One area we haven’t really covered though is the challenge of redefining ourselves in Mid Life when we can go through some of the biggest changes of our lives. And overcoming those changes can take some real resilience.Jo Clark is one of those really resilient people who has not only gone through it, but is now helping others to do the same. Jo's life once moved at breakneck speed. She juggled the demands of work, family, and keeping everything running smoothly. She guided her children through school, cared for dying parents, and coped with their loss. After decades of teaching, she hit burnout while also navigating the challenges of perimenopause. And amidst it all, Jo and her family moved to a new town. Now, all of her inner transformation work, decades of teaching experience, studies and mentoring expertise have all led her to create a heart-led business that supports women through this phase of life.In this episode she shares:-       Her childhood experiences of domestic violence-       What it was like living on the land in remote Australia-       The challenge of transitioning from the land to a different lifestyle-       Her experience with empty nest syndrome and Resilience-       Why Midlife is a time for reflection and re-evaluation of one's values and life choices.-       How grief can be multi-layered and complex, and it can impact different aspects of lifeKey Quotes"Open conversations about domestic violence are crucial""Experiences of adversity can shape a person's resilience”More about JoInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/joclarkcoaching/Website www.Joclarkcoaching.comPodcast: Redefining Midlife: https://www.joclarkcoaching.com/podcastYou can get involved with the podcast onlineOn facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auFor her other business you can find it through the websites: www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au

Do you love High performance then check out our 3 day summit in October this year, only 30 places: https://events.highperformanceleadershipsummit.com.au/october-summit-2024Listeners of the podcast know I have been diagnosed with POTS or Postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome. This is something many people can spend years suffering through before ever getting an official diagnosis, and one man who knows that well is Caelum Schild.Caelum, an Accredited Exercise Physiologist with over 12 years of experience in hospital rehabilitation, private practice, and GP clinics.After his own battles with POTS and other health conditions, he founded Lofty Health and Wellness to offer specialized allied health services for individuals with conditions like POTS, ME/CFS, EDS, fibromyalgia, long COVID, and other invisible illnesses.In this episode Caelum shares:The early injuries that got him interested in how the human body worksWhat hyper mobility is and why it is a sign of something moreWhat made him aware there was something different with him and his bodyThe time his POTS symptoms were confused as depression over the loss of his sisterHow he figured out he was misdiagnosedWhat a bad day looked like for him at the start of his journeyThe narratives he told himself as he struggled with his healthHow he manages the fear and uncertainty that comes with POTSHow he got involved with the pots foundationHow the stresses of life have made his POTs worseThe reason why he does what he doesThe fundraiser he is doingKey Quotes “I would just have to go to the toilet and have a lay down, at 9 o’clock in the morning.”"That extra stress and then the impact on your sleep and then you just find that you don't have that energy come the end of the week and it just starts to disrupt everything."More about CaelumYou can find out more about his services: https://loftyhealth.com.au/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loftyhealthandwellness/You can get involved with the podcast onlineOn facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.com If you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website: http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auFor her other business you can find it through the websites:www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au

Do you love High performance then check out our 3 day summit in October this year, only 30 places: https://events.highperformanceleadershipsummit.com.au/october-summit-2024Burn out is a topic we have covered before, but what happens when you are a high performer, working overseas far away from all your support networks and it hits you when you are completely unprepared for it? Dr Kellie Pritchard-Peschek is a performance scientist, executive health coach, and speaker who helps executive women on the brink of burnout restore their health and return to high performance. In a former life, Dr Kellie Pritchard-Peschek worked with Olympic athletes across Australia and Europe, supporting them in achieving medal-winning performances at international events such as the Olympic and Commonwealth Games, as well as World, European, and Pan Pacific Championships. It was her dream job but it was also where she neglected personal health and became a burned-out wreckIn this episode she shares:Her early career life and the kind of high performance lifestyle she ledWhat happened when she went overseasWhat happened with the new job and move that had an impact on herWhat it was like when she realised how bad things had gottenWhy she couldn’t even admit to herself how bad things were at the startThe moment that forced her to stopHow exercise turned from her support to the thing that made things worseThe problem with keeping our struggles to ourselvesWhat the process of unpacking and dealing with it was like for herThe shame and guilt she felt around her burn outKey Quotes“I didn’t have family, I didn’t have friends to lean into when things got pressured and tough in that work situation“I ignored those pebbles, those rocks, and it wasn’t until the boulder came that it stopped me in my tracks.”“I remember walking the halls of my apartment in the cold, the dark, just crying in sheer frustration and utter exhaustion.”More about KellieYou can find her website here: https://www.drkellierose.com/home/Or follow her on linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelliepritchard/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkellierose/You can get involved with the podcast onlineOn facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeus Or on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.com Or check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website: http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auFor her other business you can find it through the websites:www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au

Do you love High performance then check out our 3 day summit in October this year, only 30 places: https://events.highperformanceleadershipsummit.com.au/october-summit-2024Trigger warning: miscarriageGrief is a nuanced and varied thing can hits everyone differently and often in unexpected ways. One person who knows about this is Katie Rössler. In late 2018, her life came to a halt. Her mother died unexpectedly, and the following year, she experienced two miscarriages while trying for a third child. This led to burnout, and relationship struggles as she work through parts of her life not turning out the way she’d hoped. Now, after 15 years as a licensed therapist working with individuals, couples, and families, she felt a deeper calling to help high achievers become more confident in creating their dream relationships.In this episode Katie shares:The moment she found out about her mother’s death when she lived overseasThe pregnancy losses she experienced in the year after her mums deathHer realisation about grief after her experiencesThe different kinds of griefHow journaling helped her through her griefWhat can happen when you hold grief inTools for grounding yourself from your grief when you are not in a safe spaceHow different people will and wont be able to help us with our griefWhat she suggests to do to get back to friends and people after you have retreated into your griefHow she suggests you can get people to accept their grief and take supportHer advice for how people can take the first steps to embracing and working with their griefKey Quotes“There's just this mental game that starts to get played of, I must be being punished, there must be something I've done.”“Really the definition of grief is letting go of the way we thought life would or should go.”More about KatieThe link to her relationship assessment is here: www.katierossler.com/relationship-assessmentHer book, The New Face of Grief: www.thenewfaceofgrief.comWebsite: https://katierossler.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katie.rossler/?hl=enYou can get involved with the podcast onlineOn facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auFor her other business you can find it through the websites:www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au

Do you love High performance then check out our 3 day summit in October this year, only 30 places: https://events.highperformanceleadershipsummit.com.au/october-summit-2024Trigger warning: Domestic ViolenceImagine joining the police force to save lives and make a difference, only to get so bogged down in bureaucracy and rules that you are unable to do anything when called out to a suspected domestic violence incident.Now imagine that the woman who called you out is found dead 6 months later.That’s the experience of Jamie Pultz, who left the police force not long afterwards and went on to launch the podcast Beenham Valley Road to investigate the death of Kirra McLoughlin.In this episode Jamie shares:How he got into the policeThe hardest parts about being in the policeThe time he was called out to Kirra’s homeHow it felt after he was unable to do anythingHow he got into starting the podcastWhy it’s so hard to prove psychological and other damage in suspected domestic abuse situationsOne of the positives that is helping with domestic violenceThe challenges he had in doing the podcastThe challenge of pushing for a coronial inquestHow his life has changed with podcastingWhat we should be doing to combat domestic violenceThe anxious thoughts he had about the whole podcastHow he managed his self doubtKey Quotes“My mentor shouldn’t have been a mentor.”“Legally we did the right thing, but morally you feel like, if we could turn back the clock what could we have done?”“I've seen the system work and I've seen the system fail and in my short time in the police there was a lot of arse covering going on.”More about JamieYou can follow Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pultzy/You can find all his creative projects here: https://www.six10mediagroup.com/And you can listen to the podcast about Kirra here: https://www.six10mediagroup.com/beenhamvalleyroadYou can get involved with the podcast online On facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auFor her other business you can find it through the websites:www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au

If you’re interested in our manifestation workshop go here: https://soulstudioarmidale.com/event-manifestationDo you love High performance then check out our 3 day summit in October this year, only 30 places: https://events.highperformanceleadershipsummit.com.au/october-summit-2024Trigger warning: birth traumaI am so excited to introduce you to a woman of my heart and a dear friend of mine since university, Tori Packer.Tori is a leading Australian intuition and manifestation coach and is known for changing lives of people all around the globe.But her journey to this stage of her life started in a stage of birth trauma that spanned over multiple years and even once she was through it, that was only the beginning.In this episode Tori shares:-      The birth trauma she had with her first son-      What helped her through it-      The trauma she had with her second son-      How her mastitis got so bad she was admitted to hospital-      How peoples intentionally ‘kind’ words didn’t help her-      Her experience with an energy healer after her third child-      How she uses reframing to handle her guilt-      The process of dealing with her dad’s cancer-      What manifestation means to her-      How she has used manifestation for herself in personal and professional life-      The CRACK method and how to use itKey Quotes “As he came through the birth canal finally, it was like 36 hours, there was a lot of trauma.”“Manifestation is the placebo effect.”“My boobs were on fire. The shirt touching my boobs was excruciating.”More aboutFollow tori on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tori.packer/If you want more info on Tori’s CRACK method it’s here: https://tori-packer-95be.mykajabi.com/signup-0d5d4ccf-7254-47e5-8e57-c20d7adb172dYou can get involved with the podcast onlineOn facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website: http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auFor her other business you can find it through the websites: www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au

Do you love High performance then check out our 3 day summit in October this year, only 30 places: https://events.highperformanceleadershipsummit.com.au/october-summit-2024 If you’re interested in our manifestation workshop go here: https://soulstudioarmidale.com/event-manifestationWe’ve all heard the phrase ‘travel to find yourself’ and one person who has lived that to its extreme is Mia Bowyer.Mia is an award-winning marketing specialist, mentor and lecturer and the founder of One Earth Marketing. She has achieved some amazing things including launching the world's first fair trade plastic in Bangalore, India, Creating a 5-star podcast to tell the story of people living with invisible disabilities and engaging Twitch gamers to raise funds and awareness for Australian bushfires.But Mia’s story is so much more than just the cliff notes. After quickly realising the draining style of the corporate world was not for her, Mia began a life of travel and freedom with a journey that saw some amazing highs and achievements as well as some harrowing moments, including when she was nearly abducted.In this episode shares:Her experience with marketing animalsHer corporate careerHow she realised early on the corporate career was boringThe travel experiences she had after leaving corporateThe negative impact she saw corporate work having on the people around herHow her decision to solo bike ride overseas was her biggest challengeThe moment she realised she was being abducted How she escaped her kidnapperThe blockages that her bike ride helped her work throughWhy she struggles being around self doubtHer issues with relationships that had built up because of past experiences with assault and alcoholWhat she does nowKey Quotes“Within 5 minutes he started groping and grabbing me.”“I saw these vibrant, extremely smart people, and they had back pain, they had stress, they weren't sleeping.”“I was just there frozen with fear.”More about MiaLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/miabowyer/?originalSubdomain=auWebsite: https://www.oneearthmarketing.com/You can get involved with the podcast onlineOn facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auFor her other business you can find it through the websites:www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au