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Nobody has the trump card

Season 3, Ep. 4

Our family carers continue their discussions diving deep into the complexities of navigating the system: deputyship, best interests, annual health checks, and the emotional realities of lifelong caring. If you've been wondering how to ensure your young person's rights are upheld, this episode is for you - jargon free explanations from those who are already living it.


Episode links


Planning for Adulthood Planning for Adulthood - Challenging Behaviour Foundation


Deputyship Deputyship - Challenging Behaviour Foundation


Health Health - Challenging Behaviour Foundation


Transition: Transition to Adulthood - Challenging Behaviour Foundation


Family Carer Advocacy Resource: Family Carer Advocacy Resource - Challenging Behaviour Foundation


Challenging Behaviour Foundation Homepage for the Challenging Behaviour Foundation


Family Support Service Family Support Service - Challenging Behaviour Foundation


Peer Support Peer support - Challenging Behaviour Foundation

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