Building Resilience

Life has a funny way of making us rush around, doesn't it? Many of us find ourselves constantly moving, always trying to get to the next thing. But what if we just slowed it down a bit? What if we took a moment to breathe and really savor the moment we're in?On this episode of Building Resilience, we’re talking about the power and importance of slowing down. I'll be sharing insights from my own experiences and the lessons I've learned from my coaching certification program, I’ll explain why rushing can be detrimental to our health, relationships, and quality of life, and I’ll give some practical tips on how to prioritize, manage time effectively, and cultivate mindfulness to bring a sense of calm and balance to your everyday life.Links:Ep. 110: The Zone of ResilienceResources:The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. Find me on my website and book a mini session with me!Watch:Find the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

We all know that pain is real, even pain that can't be narrowed down to a specific cause. But that begs the question---do your thoughts and feelings about pain actually make your pain worse?In this episode, I'm going to share a useful tool that explores these thoughts, the Pain Catastrophizing Scale. It's a tool designed to measure your tendency to catastrophize pain. By separating the elements of how catastrophizing tends to manifest (rumination, magnification, and helplessness) it can help health care professionals guide treatment strategies and track progress, and can even increase your awareness of your own thoughts around pain to get it under control.Resources:The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. Find me on my website and book a mini session with me!Connect:Find the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Life has a funny way of pulling us into a spiral of negative thinking sometimes. We start with a small concern, and before we know it, we're deep in a cycle of catastrophic thoughts. Our brain has a negativity bias, but luckily we can train it to see the positives too.On this episode of Building Resilience, I delve into the concept of catastrophizing---a common cognitive distortion that traps us in a loop of negative thinking. We'll explore what catastrophizing is, why our minds tend to fall into this pattern, and the impact it can have on our mental and physical health. From understanding the underlying causes to practical strategies for breaking free from these thought traps, this episode is packed with insights to help you cultivate a more resilient mindset.Links:Ep. 121 - The Three Stories We TellResources:The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training---join the waitlist! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me!Watch:Find the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Have you ever been told to "just get over it"? This simple statement can feel really dismissive and invalidating---because it is. The truth is, resilience isn't just about bouncing back; it's also about moving forward.On this episode of Building Resilience, we dive deep into the concept of ruptures and repairs in relationships. Whether it's a personal disagreement, professional misunderstanding, or a deep emotional wound, understanding the dynamic of rupture and repair can transform how we heal and grow from these experiences. We explore how ignoring the need for genuine repair can leave us stuck, and why simply being told to get over it doesn't help.Connections:A new membership I am offering---This is a safe place where you can explore your nervous system, build up your home, expand your capacity, increase your flexibility, amplify your growth, and make life long connections.Find out more at http://leahdavidsonlifecoaching.com/connectionsResources:The "Memory Matters" course: Cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training: Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, The 30 Second Burnout Solution: A lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.Pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram.You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me!Watch:Find the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Ever found yourself struggling to remember the details of important events, even ones you've looked forward to for weeks? It can be frustrating, especially when those moments mean so much to us.On this episode of Building Resilience, I dive into practical tips and techniques that can boost your memory for special occasions. Whether it's a graduation, a family gathering, or any other significant event, these strategies will help you hold onto those precious memories.Connections:A new membership I am offering---This is a safe place where you can explore your nervous system, build up your home, expand your capacity, increase your flexibility, amplify your growth, and make life long connections.Find out more at: http://leahdavidsonlifecoaching.com/connectionsResources:The "Memory Matters" course: Cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training: Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, The 30 Second Burnout Solution: A lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.Pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram.You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me!Watch:Find the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Sometimes the solutions we've learned for managing our minds and shifting our perspectives can actually end up backfiring unless we're careful. That's the surprising insight I'm exploring today with my insightful guest, Molly Claire.Molly is a Master Life and Business Coach, specializing in helping coaches and female entrepreneurs overcome limiting beliefs and build thriving, meaningful lives.In this episode, we'll delve into the double-edged sword of thought work and mindset strategies. We'll uncover why these approaches sometimes lead to suppressing emotions rather than promoting true resilience. Molly will share her valuable insights and how childhood experiences can influence our relationship with our inner world. Get ready for practical tools and a fresh perspective on creating lasting well-being.Guest Links:The Masterful Coach Podcast with Molly Clairemollyclaire.comLinks:Running on Empty, by Jonice WebbConnections:A new membership I am offering---This is a safe place where you can explore your nervous system, build up your home, expand your capacity, increase your flexibility, amplify your growth, and make life long connections.Find out more at:http://leahdavidsonlifecoaching.com/connectionsResources:The "Memory Matters" course: Cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training: Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, The 30 Second Burnout Solution: A lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.Pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram.You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me!Watch:Find the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Life sure has a way of pushing us to our limits. Often, it's in these moments that we discover just how resilient we are---not just bouncing back, but growing to embrace life's varied experiences more fully.On this episode of Building Resilience, we delve into the concept of Identity Diversification. Why is it crucial for our overall resilience? I'll share stories and insights on how diversifying your interests, roles, and self-perception can fundamentally enhance your capacity to handle life's challenges. We'll explore practical strategies for expanding your identity portfolio and why it's a critical component of resilient living.Connections:A new membership I am offering---This is a safe place where you can explore your nervous system, build up your home, expand your capacity, increase your flexibility, amplify your growth, and make life long connections.Find out more at http://leahdavidsonlifecoaching.com/connectionsLinks:Ep.133 - The Three Guiding PrinciplesResources:The "Memory Matters" course: Cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training: Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, The 30 Second Burnout Solution: A lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.Pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram.You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me!Watch:Find the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Have you ever looked at a situation in your life and thought it was the worst thing that could happen, only to realize later that it might have been a blessing in disguise? It's a peculiar aspect of life: sometimes, things aren't what they seem.On this episode of Building Resilience, we delve deep into the heart of understanding the unpredictability of life's challenges and the unexpected benefits they can bring. I share one of my favorite stories -- The Farmer and His Horse -- a tale that beautifully illustrates the blurred lines between good fortune and misfortune, and the simple question we can ask ourselves for some clarity: "Who knows what is good and what is bad?"Links:Ep. 144: Suicide Awareness with Special Guest Rachael Clement FioreEp. 145: Losing Someone to Suicide with Special Guest Rachael Clement FioreEp. 111: Trauma Talk: De-mystifying Trauma TerminologyConnections:A new membership I am offering---This is a safe place where you can explore your nervous system, build up your home, expand your capacity, increase your flexibility, amplify your growth, and make life long connections.Find out more at: http://leahdavidsonlifecoaching.com/connectionsResources:The "Memory Matters" course: Cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training: Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, The 30 Second Burnout Solution: A lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.Pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram.You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me!Watch:Find the video version of this podcast on YouTube!