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Ep 19 - Defining Our Own Vision of Happiness And Success

Season 1, Ep. 19

We all want the 6 figure salary, the flashy car, and the amazing house..... or do we?

What happens if we had all of that, but no one to enjoy it with?

This episode helps us to become better people by helping us understand our direction of travel, and what we need to be happy and successful.


In this award-winning show* - Aman explores what it means to grow up South Asian and navigate life, identity, and growth in today’s world.


Each episode dives deep into the South Asian male experience - unpacking topics like culture, masculinity, family expectations, mental health, and purpose. The podcast challenges traditional mindsets while offering space for reflection, honesty, and real conversations.


The goal? To understand how we can become better brothers, better husbands, better sons and ultimately, better men.


If you’ve ever wondered how to balance who you are with who you want to be then this podcast is for you.


Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter


*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.


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