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BAB Behavior vs Bad Behavior: Celebrating and Side Eyeing the Women of Bravo

Ep. 11

Hey Babs! This episode is for the girlies as we celebrate Women's History Month by exploring what it means to be a BAB and highlighting the women of our current favorite Bravo (and Bravo adjacent) shows that embody BAB behavior, while also calling out those exhibiting more bad behavior (that's just like, totally against the rules of feminism...as Gretchen Wieners would say). Join me on this solo episode for the ultimate Bravo Breakdown of the women making history and making waves on Vanderpump Rules, Real Housewives of Potomac, Buying Beverly Hills, and Summer House.


But before we dive into the drama, we kick things off with a mental health breakdown, delving into the fiery energy of Aries season and the importance of recognizing burnout and processing emotions. This episode is absolutely unhinged, so strap in for a wild and fun reality tv ride!


Timestamps for the BABs:

00:05:30 - Mental Health Check-In: Recognizing Signs of Burnout and Avoiding Emotions

00:19:06 - BAB Behavior vs. Bad Behavior: Vanderpump Rules

01:14:22 - BAB Behavior vs. Bad Behavior: Real Housewives of Potomac

01:31:06 - BAB Behavior vs. Bad Behavior: Buying Beverly Hills

01:41:46 - BAB Behavior vs. Bad Behavior: Summer House


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