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103. How to regulate your nervous system longterm
In this episode, I’m sharing what nervous system regulation really looks like beyond quick grounding tools. If you’ve learned how to calm yourself down in the moment but still feel disregulated over time, this conversation will help you understand why regulation is about maintenance, not a one-time fix. I talk about why triggers don’t mean you’re failing, how embodiment supports long-term healing, and why learning to process and release emotions consistently is one of the deepest forms of self-love. This episode is a follow-up to Episode 101. How to Regulate Your Nervous System in the Moment and offers a grounded, compassionate perspective on building capacity over time.
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Watch Liz's FREE Workshop:
Enjoy my FREE TRAINING: Step Into Your Power to discover the 3 hidden patterns draining your energy and learn how to feel more like yourself again. Watch now at elisabethfleming.com/free-workshop
Read Liz's Book:
Discover Liz’s book, Powerhouse: 3 Steps to Thrive as the Incredible Woman You Already Are — A Framework for Self-Love and Expansion: elisabethfleming.com/book
Connect with Liz:
Website: elisabethfleming.com/welcome
Instagram: @mslizfleming
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104. How to trust yourself again when you feel lost
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